Rachel Phelps, First Place Winner in Summer 2010 Flash Fiction Contest!

Tuesday, December 07, 2010
Rachel Phelps is a 23-year-old who lives in Kansas City. She has her Bachelor’s in English Literature and currently works as a clinician for Applied Learning Processes, a private center for dyslexia treatment. She has experience in journalism as a reporter and editor, but her true passion is fiction.

She has been scribbling ever since she can remember and is working toward her dream being a published novelist. She is active on FaithWriters, enjoys writing skits and plays for her church, and has finally joined the blogosphere. Her favorite genre to write is historical of any period. Rachel will read almost anything as long as it is well written and isn’t senselessly offensive (offensive with a purpose gets an extra star in her book). Her biggest dream is to be an excellent author who is a Christian and prove to the skeptics that the terms are not mutually exclusive.

Find out more about Rachel by visiting her website,
http://www.wix.com/parexcellence/home, and her blog,
http://www.liveparexcellence.blogspot.com/.

interview by Marcia Peterson

WOW: Congratulations on winning first place in our Summer 2010 writing contest! What was your reaction when you found out you won?

Rachel: I screamed. I was watching a movie with friends and decided to check the Web site even though I hadn't received an email yet. When I clicked on the Contests tab, there was my picture on top. I almost dropped my computer. Once my friends figured out what was happening, I was given an impromptu toast with our soda glasses. Definitely a moment to remember.

WOW: Love your reaction! Can you tell us what encouraged the idea behind your story, Motherhood?

Rachel: I love telling the stories of forgotten characters. I think it's the journalist in me--I believe everyone deserves to have their story told. I'm adopted, so even though I'm not a mother, I've often thought about what it takes to give up a child. Putting those two instincts together brought me to Moses' mother.

WOW: It’s a powerful story that really pulled me in. You also seem to have a clear understanding of the historical period that made the story seem real. Could you share your research process, or any other good tips for writing historical fiction?

Rachel: The most important part of writing historical fiction is understanding the rhythm of the voice. For example, today, somone would say, "Hey, whatcha' doin'?" In medieval times, it would sound more like "Good morrow. How do you fare this day?" In the 1800s, you might say, "Good day. Is your family in good health?"

The best way to capture the voice of a period is to read a lot of stories from (or set in) that period. You'll also learn a lot about mindsets and social issues of the day by doing that. I've never officially studied Ancient Egypt, but I've read a ton of novels set there. I'm also very familiar with the Biblical account of the story of Moses, so it was a matter of pulling together what I knew to create the story.

WOW: Great tips! Have you written other flash fiction? What type of writing do you most prefer?

Rachel: I participate in the Weekly Writing Challenge on Faithwriters.com as often as I can - I usually don't miss more than one week a quarter. Their maximum word length is also 750 words. I love book-length works, but I tend to lose focus with the plotting and let them wander. I have yet to complete a novel-length draft because of this failing. Consistent flash fiction has really been a blessing because it has given me a chance to hone my style, cut flabby language and keep a story focused. I'm in the process of trying another novel right now, and am enjoying it much more than my previous attempts.

WOW: We’d love to know more about your writing routines. Could you tell us when and where you usually write? Do you have favorite tools or habits that get you going?

Rachel: I suppose the strictly honest answer would be that I don't have a writing routine. I'm rather terrible at making myself sit down and write. However, I console myself with the reminder that I am always writing in my head. It's true--I try to keep several projects going at once and any moment I'm not focused on something else, I'm plotting or perfecting a turn of phrase in my head. Then when I have free time at lunch or in the evenings, I'll open the Word document and plow in.

I've discovered that I write best in bed late at night. It's a nostalgia thing for me--I spent most of my growing up years doing a Jo March impression and writing into the wee hours of the morning. Even if it's not late, there's something about plumping up all my pillows and getting settled under the covers that triggers my writing mode. I've also rediscovered my love of writing long-hand this fall. I write much faster and clearer when I have a freshly sharpened pencil and a blank sheet of paper in hand. Now if only my copy and paste function worked as well in my notebook as it does in Word!

WOW: So, do you have any writing goals for the New Year?

Rachel: I want to complete the novel I'm working on now. I also intend to stay active on FaithWriters--the  community there is one of the best incentives to write I've found. I have a few other projects I'd like to dust off, but I want to keep my focus on the novel, so we'll have to see.

I'm a competitive person, so now that I've won a contest I'm on the prowl for more to enter. I want to at least place in two contests in 2011.

WOW: Thanks so much for chatting with us today, Rachel! Before you go, do you have any tips for our readers who may be thinking about entering writing contests?

Rachel: Go for it. If you feel you're ready to get your work out there, don't be afraid of getting your work out there. I submitted my story literally thinking, "I don't think I have much of a chance, but getting the critique will be helpful," and look what happened. I hope to be competing against many of you in the future!

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Check back on Tuesdays for more contest winner interviews!

For information about our quarterly writing contests, please visit: http://www.wow-womenonwriting.com/contest.php.
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Sybil Baker, author of Talismans, Launches her Blog Tour!

Monday, December 06, 2010
& Book Giveaway Comments Contest!

If you've been following The Muffin for a while, you probably remember Sybil Baker's first tour with WOW for The Life Plan. We had such a fantastic time that we were thrilled when Sybil decided to tour with us again for her latest book Talismans, a compelling collection of linked stories that's been described as a contemporary Heart of Darkness. I'm particularly excited about this tour because I love short story collections, and the idea of having linked short stories in one book is something I'm really interested in as an aspiring author.

Sybil Baker spent twelve years teaching in South Korea prior to accepting a position as an assistant professor of English at the University of Tennessee at Chattanooga after earning her MFA in Writing from the Vermont College of Fine Arts. During her extensive travels throughout Asia, she became increasingly interested in the allure and alienation of American travelers and expatriates, and this has heavily influenced her writing. She is the author of Talismans (C&R Press, 2010) and The Life Plan (Casperian Books, 2009). Her short stories and essays have appeared in Transnational Literature, Upstreet, The Writer's Chronicle, and elsewhere.

Learn more about Sybil by visiting her website www.sybilbaker.com, and her blog An Ex-patriate's Musings on Writing, Teaching, and Travel.

Talismans
by Sybil Baker

Elise understands her father--a Vietnam vet who abandoned her when she was an infant--about as much as she does her church organist mother and the rest of their suburban Virginian town. When even that thin thread of connection is suddenly severed, Elise is flung across the world, to Southeast Asia. Tracing the steps her father took through the war, Elise searches for a connection--with his ghost, with other travelers, with the foreign culture and environment she experiences. In a series of linked short stories, Talismans follows Elise's journey to learn what she must hold onto, and what she must leave behind.

Genre: Literary Fiction, Short Story Collection
Trade Paperback: 181 pages
Publisher: C&R Press (December 2010)
ISBN: 1936196034

Talismans is available through C&R Press, SPD (Small Press Distribution), and forthcoming on Amazon.

Listen to an interview with Sybil about Talismans on Public Radio International WUTC.

Book Giveaway Comments Contest!

If you received our Events Newsletter, remember, we are holding a contest to win a copy of Sybil's book, Talismans, to those that comment. So, grab a cup of coffee, pull up a chair, and enjoy the chat, and share your thoughts, questions or comments, at the end. We will randomly choose a winner from those who comment. Enjoy!

Interview by Jodi Webb

WOW: We're all familiar with a writer plotting out a novel. How does it work with a linked short story collection? Do you plot it out or write one short story and then realize you want to delve deeper into that story?

SYBIL: I expect that each linked collection is different. In my case I first wrote the story "Fur Elise" many years ago. A few years later I wrote two more stories ("That Girl" and "Grape Island") that take place in Korea. Only after writing those stories did I realize that they were all about the same character, but at different times in her life. I wanted to find out why (and how) Elise had moved from Virginia to Korea.

In that sense the stories evolved organically, and I wrote most of them to fill in gaps in Elise's story. Because the stories had to work as stand-alone pieces and as parts of a larger whole, I had to revise a lot to make sure that the collection worked on a micro and macro level.

WOW: I came into this interview thinking writing a short story collection would be easier than writing a novel. But now that I think about the work involved in making each story work alone and as part of a larger piece I've changed my mind. Concerning short stories and novels...do you prefer writing one over the other?

SYBIL: I love both, although lately I've been focused more on novel writing, and that's mainly because I have more ideas for novels than for short stories. I do have about ten stories that I've written and would like to write more that might be included in a short story collection at some point.

WOW: I've often read that short story collections are a "hard sell" so I wonder what made you choose the short story format for Talismans?

SYBIL: Short story collections are hard to sell although there are always exceptions (Jhumpa Lahiri's Unaccustomed Earth and Olive Kitteridge by Elizabeth Strout are recent examples of collections that sold well). In my case, the stories were first, and only when I realized they also told a larger story did I consider linking them. I tried to focus on writing the collection and not what would happen afterward. Most of the stories have been published in literary magazines as individual pieces and I was happy to have that.

Some small and independent presses actually like to focus on publishing short stories instead of novels. I'm very happy that C&R Press decided to publish the collection—they've established themselves as a strong publisher of poetry and are expanding into publishing short story collections. Mine is the first but others will soon follow.

WOW: So you're blazing a trail for other authors! You've marketed both a novel and a short story collection. Is the marketing plan the same or are there things you have to do differently with each book? If you could give one piece of marketing advice to our readers what would it be?

SYBIL: Basically I'll be doing similar things with the novel (The Life Plan) as with Talismans—doing a WOW Blog tour, giving readings at book stores and universities, and staying up to date with my blog and Facebook. That said, The Life Plan is a comic novel, while Talismans is more serious and a bit darker, so I do have to keep that in mind when marketing the book. I do think readers of The Life Plan will enjoy Talismans as both have female protagonists who leave the States and travel to Asia.

The biggest piece of marketing advice is to remember that you sell books one at a time. I've been to readings where I've only sold two or three books but then those people liked the book and recommended it to others.

WOW: I think we'd all benefit from that positive slant on sales. Have you visited all the places mentioned in Talismans? Have you ever considered writing nonfiction pieces about the various places you've visited?

SYBIL: I have been to the places I write about: South Korea, Thailand, Vietnam, Cambodia, and Myanmar. I used my experiences there as well as travel guides and travel blogs to create the stories.

I haven't seriously considered writing nonfiction pieces about those places—the places were interesting but (luckily) my life is pretty boring, so I wouldn't have much to write about that people couldn't get from a travel guide.

WOW: Somehow, when I picture your life "boring" isn't the first word that comes to mind. What places haven't you visited that are still on your "bucket list"?

SYBIL: Many—definitely India is one of the few Asian countries I never made it to that I'd really like to go to. My husband and I are planning on traveling through Central America this summer, and I'm really looking forward to that.

WOW: I hope we'll be hearing about it in your future writings. Speaking of future writings, what's next for you?

SYBIL: I'm finishing revising a novel about two sisters—one an adopted Korean—that takes place primarily in present day Seoul. I spent six weeks in Seoul this summer researching the project. I'm really excited about it. I'm still a way from trying to find an agent or a publisher for it, but I'll be back for another WOW blog tour when the novel does come out.

WOW: I, for one, can't wait to read it!

Want to join Sybil Baker on her blog tour? Check out these dates and mark your calendar! You can also snag a copy of WOW's Events Calendar HERE.

Blog Tour Dates: Come and join the fun!

December 6, 2010 Monday
Sybil Baker will be chatting with WOW! Women On Writing at The Muffin. One lucky commenter will win a signed copy of Sybil's new book!
http://muffin.wow-womenonwriting.com

December 7, 2010 Tuesday
Interested in travel writing? Sybil shares her experience at Writing Come Hell or High Water.
http://bethiswriting.com/

December 8, 2010 Wednesday
On Colloquium, author Sybil Baker shares her experience writing a linked short story collection.
http://www.jhsiess.com/

December 9, 2010 Thursday
Don't miss a guest post from author Sybil Baker and a chance to win her latest book Talismans!
http://www.momecentric.com/

December 10, 2010 Friday
Sybil has more information to share with us! Come on over to Anne-Marie Nichols' blog The Write Spot and read all about it!
http://www.the-write-spot.com/

December 13, 2010 Monday
Which do you like to read more: short stories or novels? Which do you like to write more? Sybil Baker, author of the novel The Life Plan and a linked short story collection Talismans, stops by with her opinion. She's also giving away a copy of Talismans!
http://writerinspired.wordpress.com/

December 14, 2010 Tuesday
Don't miss the chance to chat with author Sybil Baker today on Books, Books, The Magical Fruit. You also have the chance to win a gift for yourself or a loved one...Sybil's latest book Talismans!
http://booksbooksthemagicalfruit.blogspot.com/

December 15, 2010 Wednesday
Sybil Baker stops by with the long and short of fiction writing, as well as a copy of her latest book Talismans for a giveaway!
http://blog.juliealindsey.com/

December 20, 2010 Monday
Don't miss a review of Sybil Baker's linked short story collection Talismans and a chance to win a copy!
http://www.jhsiess.com/

December 21, 2010 Tuesday
Stop by Words by Webb when author Sybil Baker answers the 5Ws and has her latest book Talismans reviewed.
http://jodiwebb.com/

December 22, 2010 Wednesday
Sybil Baker, author of Talismans, stops by to share her secrets for promoting your book.
http://amomentwithmystee.blogspot.com/

December 28, 2010 Tuesday
Learn about travel writing from Sybil Baker at Women Travel. In Sybil's latest book, Talismans, her main character travels the Far East searching for clues of her father.
http://www.womentravelblog.com/

December 29, 2010 Wednesday
Join the fun today! Stop by for an interview with Sybil and a chance to leave your questions and comments for her. Also, a lucky someone will win a signed copy of Sybil's book Talismans!
http://carolineclemmons.blogspot.com/

December 30, 2010 Thursday
Don't miss an audio interview with Sybil Baker and a chance to win a copy of her latest book Talismans!
http://www.niapromotionspodcast.com/

January 4, 2011 Tuesday
Happy New Year! Stop by Misadventures with Andi and read a review of and enter to win Talismans by Sybil Baker.
http://www.misadventureswithandi.com/

January 5, 2011 Wednesday
Julie Lindsey interviews Sybil Baker, author of The Life Plan and her newly released short story collection Talismans. Stop by for fantastic writerly advice!
http://blog.juliealindsey.com/

To view all of our touring authors, check out our Events Calendar HERE.

Get involved!

If you have a blog or website and would like to host Sybil Baker or schedule a tour of your own, please email Angela and Jodi at: blogtour@wow-womenonwriting.com

And be sure to comment on this post to enter in a drawing for a copy of Sybil Baker's linked short story collection Talismans! And check back in a couple of days in the comments section to see if you won!
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Accepting the Time to Write

Sunday, December 05, 2010
In terms of relationship longevity and not age, I have a dear, old friend who is a former colleague and a writer in England. Over the many years of friendship, we have formed a bit of our own writers' safety net.
You know how that is: a mutual admiration society comprised of one close friend who knows you really well and can call you out when you seem to be moving off track.
During our conversational times (that have recently moved into video Skype!), often the words "confidence," "plot," "situations," "point of view," "time to write," "deadline," and other supportive, writer-ly exchanges take place. Often, when we're not speaking, we exchange the morale boosting e-mail.
One recent thread was a discussion of finding time to write. For 10 months, I had been on a committee to be a volunteer/consultant with the commissioning of a naval vessel. In October and November, I breathed preparations for the event. But in between the committee meetings, I'd been trying to keep up with my paid writing, my family and friends, and trying to find a balance. Of course, my fiction writing took a decided turn on the back burner. I wanted to bring it back to the front burner by participating in NaNoWriMo, but in the balance of life, my friend suggested that I become like a deep-sea diver after November's event.
He recommended that the best way to recapture my fiction-writing pace was to dive into it; find a solid chunk of time, hold my breath and dive in. Once I had captured a lengthy patch of time, I would be more able to re-focus my work and take smaller bites to right my balance.
It starts sounding like a familiar refrain, as I read fellow Muffin bloggers holiday-preparedness posts and other writers.
How do you deal with the ebb and flow of life interfering in your writing progress? Do you ever feel like to get back on track you need to dive in for a significant period, without coming up for air?

Elizabeth King Humphrey is a writer/editor who lives in Wilmington, N.C., and is planning to don some fictional diving gear soon...real soon.
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Feeding Your Spirit: A Response

Saturday, December 04, 2010
A couple of days ago, fellow WOW’ster Heiddi wrote a post called, ‘Feeding Your Spirit to Feed Your Writing’, reminding us if we do so, our writing benefits immensely. Two of Heiddi’s suggestions really resonated with me and I examined what that means for me.

‘Review your accomplishments’ is first on the list. Heiddi suggests that remembering the things you’ve done in the past, whether writing-oriented or not, reveals your strengths and capabilities.

Thinking about this year, I wanted to explore screenwriting and signed up for ScriptFrenzy back in April, the screenwriting equivalent to NaNoWriMo. I managed to make it a little past the halfway point of 100 pages by the end of April, not bad for my first time, and want to finish up by the end of the year. I also went on my first writing retreat at a nearby retreat center. Taking the time for a long weekend focused on writing was what I needed and I returned rejuvenated and eager to work on new ideas for projects.


‘Go back to hobbies that you enjoy’, number three on the list, is a favorite. So is music, which refreshes me. Sometimes as I listen to various songs, a lyric or two inspires a character or story idea. I’m becoming more interested in filmmaking too and was part of the production team for a film project with a non-profit I’ve volunteered with for some years. I worked the camera, did lights and makeup, and hope to assist with editing. I’d want to continue developing these skills and like to see this turn into more than a hobby.

Bottom line, keeping our spirit fed keeps us and our writing vibrant and productive. Something to ponder as we finish up the year.

Thanks for the reminder, Heiddi!
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Friday Speak Out!: 7 Ways to Help Writers Survive the Holidays, Guest Post by Cindy Kerschner

Friday, December 03, 2010
7 Ways to Help Writers Survive the Holidays

by Cindy Kerschner

We're all stretched a little thinner around the holidays; between family visits, catching up with friends, shopping and party obligations, what's a writer to do? This time of year, I stare more at the calendar than I do the clock. That says a lot because I'm a big clock watcher.

Instead of stressing out about it, let this time of year inspire you with new ideas for articles and stories. Here are a few samples from my own ghosts of Christmas past.

1. Write about the consequences of living with dyslexia after you realize your guests arrive on the 12th not the 21st.

2. Hit the home decorating magazine market with tips for cleaning and decorating at the same time; for example, spray painting dust bunnies red and green for Christmas.

3. Surprise the food magazines with your knowledge of cheese acquired from deli counter sampling.

4. Write about the benefits of measuring your car, doorways, and living room ceiling before cutting down and trying to transport a live tree from the farm to your home.

5. Advise parents how to handle your child's hysteria when she finds out you forgot to buy cookies and milk for Santa. Explain that Santa is on a diet and lactose intolerant.

6. Share your survival tips on how to camp out on Black Friday Eve at the Megamart without losing your place in line and not get a bladder infection.

7. Write an article for a blog about how help writers survive the holidays.

Remember that personal experience articles are always in demand. Wow, look at the date! Gotta run!

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Cindy Kerschner lives and works in Northeast PA where she writes, draws, cooks and gardens but not necessarily at the same time. Visit Cindy's website at http://writelane.wordpress.com/.



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Where Do You Draw the Line

Thursday, December 02, 2010

If you’re a fan of old movies you might recognize the work of John O’Hara, a novelist from my hometown of Pottsville, Pennsylvania. His novels Pal Joey, Butterfield 8 and From the Terrace all made it to the big screen in the late 50s and early 60s. But he also has the notable distinction as being one of the few authors that his hometown refused to celebrate. In fact, for a time, local libraries refused to carry his books.

Why? Well, O’Hara wrote about his hometown and the people in it. Sure, he ‘disguised’ the names and places. For instance, Pottsville became Gibbsville. But for locals his code was easy to crack. And stripped of the fictionalization many people didn’t like O’Hara’s characters, especially the ones they thought were their drunken Uncle Matthew, vain Cousin Anne, or social ladder climbing Grandma. O’Hara’s characters hit a little too close to home and Pottsville was sure all their foibles were revealed to the world.

I’ve been playing around with a short story that is close to home. Like O’Hara I’ve disguised the names and places but wonder…is it enough? Should I just let this particular story—and the people who lived it—alone?

In a time when memoirs have made everything game, is anyone still hearing the “we don’t air our dirty laundry in public” motto of their grandmothers? Is fictionalizing a story enough? Or are there some experiences you just won’t write about? Where do you draw the line?

Thankfully, the novel Jodi's writing takes place during World War II and none of the people are drawn from her friends or family! You can hear more about her writing struggles and new authors she loves at Words by Webb.

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Feeding Your Spirit to feed Your Writing

Wednesday, December 01, 2010
Hiya writers. Today's post is about feeding your spirit to feed your writing. Why is this important? In order for us to write, we need to live and believe in ourselves. Feeding your spirit is about regaining faith in yourself and your writing.
Life is hard and it is a challenge. As a single working mom, I can attest to this personally. As a therapist, I recognize that I haven't been feeding my spirit. In fact, I feel my spirit's taking a beating and so has my writing along with it.
So, what can I (or you writers) do to refresh myself spiritually and remember faith in myself?

1. Review your accomplishments. Sometimes remembering all the great things you've done in the past (writing or otherwise) can help you remember your strength and your true capabilities. I often think about how I went back to school full-time, while working full-time and being a full-time mom and got amazing grades. I remember not sleeping much and doing homework outside of home. I wonder how I got through that and remember that inner strength that kept me going.

2. Talk to your friends and family about what they admire of you. Sometimes we get so bogged down with life in general that we get blinded to our own talents. Ask the people that care about you what they see in you. I have a wonderful friend who tells me about my tenacity and drive during the toughest times. She reminds me of what's special about me.

3. Go back to hobbies that you enjoy. We focus so much on writing that we forget that we also have to fuel our creativity. As I write this, I'm listening to music. Music is so inspiring to me and I realized that I haven't been listening to it at all these days. As if I don't have time to listen to it (which I do). Go back to those things that inspire you because that will inspire your writing.

4. Remember to take time out to rest. Again life keeps us busy, but we all need to unwind and relax for awhile. Take a few minutes at the beginning, middle and end of your day. In the morning, think about going into your day with a positive attitude and reflect on that. At lunchtime, review how you did that morning. Did you keep a positive outlook? If not, what took you off course? If you were successful, use that tool often. In the evening, reflect on what was good and what wasn't so good. Then let that go.

Writers, remember to feed your spirit as much as possible because your writing is affected by that. Your writing will come to life because of it and you'll be inspired again.

Happy Writing!
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Securing Local Work

Tuesday, November 30, 2010


In November's WOW! Premium Green newsletter, I polled our members about whether or not they had a membership in the local chamber of commerce or another business group. Most of those answering didn't have a membership. Some said they would consider joining if they wrote copy.

But writers who limit themselves - especially in today's turbulent freelance marketplace - by not connecting with local businesses are missing an amazing opportunity.

Small business owners need copy. Small business owners also have other communication needs: newsletters, brochures, websites, social media and marketing. Small business owners need writers who have proven they meet deadlines and offer a quality product.

Why not let local business owners know you are available? Let them know that as a professional, you're will develop a strong, working relationship with them and work with them to promote their business. Joining the local chamber of commerce of small business owners group will increase your bottom dollar. And in today's market, writers need to open as many doors as possible. You never know when a connection will land a lucrative contract.

How do you get started?
  1. If you are a member of the chamber of commerce or business group, make a list of potential business contacts. Secure a name and phone number and make the call. For writers who haven't joined a business group, you're still in luck. Look through online business directories for your area. The yellow pages (although I've been told they are so last year) can lead you to local businesses. Many regional newspapers offer online marketplace services that list area businesses. I've added an example from my regional newspaper.
  2. Combine services and offer a package deal. Through a contact I made, I was able to design and edit a company newsletter. If I hadn't offered a combination of services, the business owner would have been forced to hire another person to design their monthly communications.
  3. Offer coupons to new customers. A coupon advertises your services at a reduced cost and is a cost-effective means of advertising for your writing business.
  4. Remember your current clients. After all, they have been the foundation of support for your business. Stay in contact with this group of business owners, even if they currently don't need your services. You can't predict when they will need copy or editing services.

Joining a local business organization will provide writers with yet another resource to draw from for a client base. You never know when the quaint cafe down the road or the local clothing store may need a writer.

Do you have a membership in a local business organization? Ever secured a writing job from a small business?

Post and graphic by LuAnn Schindler. LuAnn is a monthly columnist for WOW!s Premium Green issue and a freelance writer. She writes a weekly newspaper column about Nebraska for several regional newspapers.

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Women’s Memoirs: Helping Every Woman Tell Her Story

Monday, November 29, 2010
In case you haven’t noticed, memoirs are hot right now. From self-help gurus to genealogy sites to love stories—it’s all about the memoir.

Today, I am very excited to introduce you Matilda Butler and Kendra Bonnett, co-creators of a wonderful website called Women’s Memoirs.

Ladies, welcome to The Muffin! When I first found your website I was so excited. The site is beautiful, easy to navigate and absolutely full of information, products and offers. What is the story behind the creation of Women’s Memoirs?

Kendra Bonnett: Robyn. Thanks for the invitation to join you today. I’m going to turn over your first question to Matilda since she started us on the path to working in the memoir genre.

Matilda Butler: Hi Robyn. I’m pleased to be talking with you. Women’s Memoirs is the outgrowth of my experience interviewing more than 100 women for what became our award-winning collective memoir called Rosie’s Daughters: The “First Woman To” Generation Tells Its Story that Kendra and I co-authored. The interviews with the women became a life-altering experience for me. We laughed together; we cried together. These women’s stories touched my life. I became so involved in their narratives that I dreamed about these women almost nightly. Some told me parts of their lives they had never shared with anyone. At the end of these long and intense interviews, so many of the women said a variation of, “Thank you, I never took the time to look at my life before. Now I can see what I was doing and I can change as I move forward.”

For the first time, I realized how important it is to tell our stories.

I’m trained as a researcher and like to say that I started work on the collective memoir as a social scientist and ended as a memoir coach. Although I had been involved in women’s issues for much of my career, helping women tell their life stories once again reshaped my professional focus.

I knew that if I wanted to reach women with information about how to write a memoir, I needed a website. The current site, which is actually its third incarnation, is a blog. That has helped us be able to cover many topics on a regular basis -- much easier than in an earlier version where we had to make changes and additions in html code.

I get the feeling that Women’s Memoirs has a mission; would you like to share a little about that?

Kendra: I’m glad that our passion comes through in our website and in the information we provide. Our mission is simple, yet decidedly grand. We want to help every woman tell her story. Women’s life stories have been, and in many cases continue to be, shortchanged and undervalued. We offer women the tools and support that it takes to write their memoirs. Some women, of course, want to write for themselves or for their families. A life story should be captured, considered and shared, even if the message goes no farther than a daughter or grandchild.

For that matter, the very act of capturing the story is beneficial as it often helps the writer resolve issues and heal. It’s important that the process of writing not stymie the process of healing and recovery. We have people in our classes, critique groups and coaching sessions that are learning to communicate through writing for the first time. In truth, we’ve discovered that many of the memoir writers we meet (aspiring as well as published) didn’t start out with grand plans to become writers. So it’s important that Women’s Memoirs be there to help them conquer the writing.

Of course, for those who want to publish their memoirs, writing is only half the battle. A published author is, in effect, a businessperson, and that requires a different set of skills. I have more years in marketing than I care to admit to, and I’m using my expertise to focus on how the best of traditional marketing strategy and new media tactics come together to help author-entrepreneurs succeed.

So whether writing or marketing, it’s our mission to share as much information as we can through our blogs and free eBooks. Given the number of women who thank us for being “so generous” with our content, I think we’re probably achieving our objective of opening the field to all women, regardless their previous experience and skill.

As these women become more focused on their projects and want to work directly with us, we have a number of courses, coaching programs and critique groups. We’re also always adding to our product line of workshops on DVD and in-depth eBooks. In January, for example, you’ll see the first of our new marketing tools, a comprehensive look at how writers can use Twitter to build a platform and promote their books.

You’ve mentioned an important point, and one I would like to call attention to as I feel this is what separates Women’s Memoirs from the other memoir-writing websites I have seen. Writing the memoir and publishing the memoir are two separate acts and require different skills, yet you address both.


Let’s focus on the writing aspect for a moment. Writing requires both inspiration and action. You address this by offering tools and incentive for people at all levels. You inspire your readers through author interviews, memoir book reviews and brief videos with writing tips; then encourage activity through memoir writing prompts, journaling explorations, writing contests and classes. In fact, your classes were so well received that you have created a DVD version; tell us a little about this set.

Matilda:
Robyn, let me jump back in. I started teaching women’s memoir writing in 2006 through local colleges and privately. Not long after that, Kendra began coaching on a one-on-one basis. By 2008, we added online teaching. That took us in the direction that we knew we needed to go. Although Kendra teaches on the East coast and I teach in Northern California, many women contacted us through our website and wanted to study with us but couldn’t work out their schedule or logistics to connect with us either locally or on the phone.

The next logical step was to create a DVD product based on our all-day workshop. We call it The [Essential] Women’s Memoirs Writing Workshop: 21 Steps from Planning to Publication. When we decided to develop a DVD of our workshop, we realized we had to create separate lessons because we couldn’t count on the flow from topic to topic that works in a group setting. The development of the 21 lessons caused us to create more writing exercises as well. The final product includes almost eight hours of video lessons, 40 writing exercises, and the electronic version of our 57-page workbook. Some of the footage for the DVD comes from a class I was teaching at the time.

That leads me to the special offer we’re making to WOW women. Right now and for a very limited time we’re offering our 5-DVD workshop (a $132 value) for $59. And because it’s the season of giving, Kendra and I will give $10 of each order to the Alzheimer’s Association to help support their good work. We invite all WOW women interested in writing their memoir or helping a mother or friend write hers to take advantage of this special offer, go to:
http://knowledgeaccessbooks.com/wow_dvd_savings/.



Such a generous offer, thank you so much! I love that you have chosen to support the Alzheimer’s Association. When someone loses their memories they lose everything, their sense of self, their loved ones, etc… I can think of few things worse than Alzheimer’s.

In addition to the memoir how-to, you also offer book business how-to.

Kendra:
Yes, Robyn, we’ve been running parallel content threads on both writing and book business since almost our first day online. The reason is we want women writers to be successful. And if they define “success” as publishing and selling their memoirs, but then either can’t get published or fail to sell more than a handful of copies…well that’s just not going to cut it for them. Even if they just want to share their work freely with other women online, there’s more too it than getting a Facebook page.

The Internet, of course, has redefined the book business every bit as much as it has changed the face of journalism, politics and traditional business. I mean, it’s literally turned convention on its head. While that’s often good, it’s also terrifying. Change by definition closes many doors; the trick is to be able to see the new ones being opened. We see Women’s Memoirs' job to be to point women toward the new opportunities and make it an exciting time for them.

Starting in January, we’ll be releasing a series of very inexpensive eBooks and videos that will guide writers through the challenges (and opportunities) of blogging, social media, publicity/promotion, even self-publishing.

Matilda and I view this as a great time to be in publishing, provided writers can find their way. Our goal is to help writers who are having trouble embracing online marketing tactics make the transition as painlessly as possible. You might say that we’re putting women in charge of their books—from writing to sales.

That’s wonderful! Internet business can be so confusing.
This year you two are celebrating the thirtieth anniversary of your professional partnership. Where do you go from here?

Matilda:
That’s a great question. Kendra and I spend a month together once or twice each year. During that time we have some fun and plan our coming year. About 18months ago, Kendra was visiting and our conversations focused on a new approach to writing that would move our students beyond their current level of writing. Our all-day workshop, whether offered in person or on DVD, seemed quite effective in getting women started. However, we found that while our continuation workshops went well, we couldn’t seem to significantly elevate their writing. We knew several components we wanted to emphasize, but we still needed a cohesive approach.

One evening we drove to San Jose for a music performance. The composer strode on the stage and began to describe his approach to the composition we would hear the quartet play. Kendra and I turned to each other and whispered at the same moment, “That’s it.” He gave us an idea that we both realized could help us take our series of ideas and put them into a logical framework.

After developing the concept and teaching materials of what we eventually called Writing Alchemy, we began working with students and conducting workshops. We’ve been doing this now for 16 months. That has given us ample time to see the incredible change in the writing of everyone who uses the method, independent of their initial skill level.

We are in the final stages of completing our book, Writing Alchemy: The Art and Science of Turning Your Words into Gold. We’ll supplement the book with workbooks, videos, teacher handbooks and much more. Writing Alchemy should have been finished this summer except that my husband and I were finally persuaded by two of our sons and two grandchildren to move to Oregon to be near them. That turned out to be a major distraction from writing. As I talk with you, we have movers in the house and we’ll be in the car driving north in a few days. I should be back to finishing my part of the book by mid-December. We’re eager to share our new approach to writing with both writers and teachers of writing. Then while continuing to teach and promote Writing Alchemy, we’ll develop a DVD around the concept.

And...Kendra and I always have more ideas than we can get done. This means that we are frequently vetting our brainstorms in order to find the next idea that will be useful to women writers.

More good stuff on the way!

Ladies, thank you so much for visiting with us today and for the special offer on your DVD class.

Kendra:
Robyn, on behalf of both Matilda and myself, thank you for this opportunity to share this exciting world of Women’s Memoirs with your readers.

BRIEF BIOs:
Matilda Butler graduated magna cum laude from Boston University. She earned an M.A. in communications from Stanford University and a Ph.D. in social psychology from Northwestern University. Listed in the Who’s Who of American Women since 1975, she has taught and conducted research at Stanford, created the nationwide Women’s Educational Equity Communications Network, and co-founded Knowledge Access International, a software company specializing in CD-ROM information products. Together with Kendra Bonnett, she co-authored Rosie’s Daughters: The “First Woman To” Generation Tells its Story which won the 2008 IPPY National Book Award’s Bronze Medal and three national book festival honors. She and Kendra Bonnett now help women tell their life stories in their women’s memoir writing classes online and in person and through a 5-DVD set, The [Essential] Women’s Memoir Writing Workshop: 21 steps from Planning to Publication.

An award-winning author with over 300 magazine articles and seven books to her credit, Kendra Bonnett graduated cum laude from Arizona State University with degrees in history and anthropology, completed a Master’s in history from the College of William and Mary and further graduate studies at the University of California at Santa Barbara. She was editor of the Women’s Educational Equity Communication Network, designed computer curriculum for secondary school students and co-founded Digit, one of the first computer magazines for children. She later founded Profit: Information Technology for Entrepreneurs and Beyond Computing, a joint magazine publishing venture between IBM and The New York Times and was Profit’s first Editor in Chief. Throughout her career she provided marketing to companies ranging from Fortune 500 to small, entrepreneurial startups. In the late 1990s, she was president of Westchester, NY-based marketing firm Mark Stevens & Company.
Interview by Robyn Chausse

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Tiny Blessings

Saturday, November 27, 2010

We tend to think that blessings drop from the heavens with bells and whistles-- winning lottery numbers and miracle healings. The fact is that blessings don’t shout, they whisper.

A few years ago I was holding down a sixteen-hour a day corporate job when I began to get sick—every time I went to work. The doctor called it Toxic Office Syndrome…seriously (I hear you laughing). He said I needed to either remove the toxin from my work environment or remove myself from the company. After much fretting I decided to quit my job and what seemed to be a disaster turned out to be a gigantic turning point in my life.

I had fallen off course from my original desire to write for a living and didn’t know how to get back on track. The fear of lack, believing we could not survive without that second income, would have kept me chained to that job until it killed me; I’d had several warning episodes of dozing off at the wheel and still I did not listen. During my illness I was able to re-examine my priorities and realign myself. Becoming ill pushed me to a point where I had no choice but to let go. That illness was a blessing; I now spend my days happily writing.

Grace underlines our lives with tiny blessings disguised in frustrating and challenging situations such as:

Receiving a bad review which, after the tears are shed, helps you to see your work with fresh eyes and write something extraordinary.

Not landing that assignment you felt certain was meant for you (and what you never find out is that the contract went sour).

Or that horrible one-night-stand which you end up selling as a short story!

So, give thanks and enjoy all of life, the ups and the downs. Because during those times when you wonder why things are going wrong, they may just be going right! Leave room for tiny blessings.
by Robyn Chausse
Have you experienced a time when tragedy turned to triumph? When life took an unexpected turn-for-the-better? Maybe just a surprise that set your world right. Share your tiny blessings here!
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Friday Speak Out!: What I Learned from NANOWRIMO , Guest Post by Sandy Ackers

Friday, November 26, 2010
What I Learned from NANOWRIMO

by Sandy Ackers

It's that time again, the one month a year when tens of thousands of crazy people attempt to write a complete novel during the month of November, or National Novel Writing Month (NaNoWriMo). I did it in 2008 and "won"—meaning I completed the first draft of a 50,000 word novel in 30 days.

While I usually recommend fitting brief moments of creativity into the stressful busy-ness of life, it can be eye-opening to pursue a large, ambitious project like this and see where it takes you. So, without further ado, here's what I learned from the experience:

• Don't expect to write a masterpiece in 30 days. You've succeeded if you can complete a coherent piece of writing in that amount of time, creating the solid skeleton of a novel.

• You will learn a lot about plotting and pacing a story when you work that fast.

• Forget about intensive character development and lovingly crafted poetic passages for the moment. You can add these elements later.

• Dr. Wicked's Write or Die (http://writeordie.drwicked.com/) is your best friend during NaNoWriMo. A fantastic tool to force you to meet your word count.

• Don't think, just write. You'll wind up with plenty of less-than-stellar passages, but I bet you'll also be surprised at some gems that arise out of this pressure-cooker situation.

• Don't get stuck in a scene you're having trouble writing—keep moving forward. Sketch the scene out briefly with a few sentences and move on. At 50,000 words, your novel will be short, so it's good to have spots to finish later.

• Include a couple of subplots so you won't wind up finishing your story before you reach 50,000 words.

• Don't fret about the quality of your writing. First drafts are supposed to be rough and unpolished. Getting the plot down is key in this fast-paced exercise.

• Approach the month as a giant writing exercise rather than as the chance to write a fantastic novel, and you will learn a lot from the experience.

• Back care is important when you're spending so much extra time at the computer. Be sure to get up and stretch a lot. If you can hire an on-call massage therapist, even better!

• My most important point: forget everything I've said and do it your way. There's no right way to complete a novel in 30 days—if my pointers help you, wonderful. If not, that's fine too.

Best of luck to everyone participating this year!

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Sandy Ackers is a writer and creativity coach. She blogs at Strangling My Muse: Struggling to Live a Creative Life in a Stressful World.




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What kind of animal is a NaNoWriMo?, Guest Post by Edna James

Thursday, November 25, 2010
What kind of animal is a NaNoWriMo?

by Edna James

When I first saw NaNoWriMo I couldn't help thinking what kind of animal is that? Curiosity didn't kill the cat in this case, but it sure pushed me into checking out what a NaNoWriMo was.

The National November Writing Month was news to me. I read about the challenge of committing to 50,000 wds. in a month and found myself waffling back and forth as to whether I wanted to do this. So on November first I began clicking away at the keyboard entering the required information and then writing my story.

At first, I thought I would have a hard time keeping at it everyday, with a mental word count I had determined as my guideline. Much to my utter surprise, I have stuck with that word count and then some, everyday.

I wanted to tell you how great it is to be participating in NaNoWriMo for the first time and how it keeps me focused without the worries of punctuation, grammar, run on sentences, the constant use of the backspace key, etcetera.

NaNoWriMo has been the perfect kick in the seat of my pants. This challenge has pushed me to get the story out of my head and onto the page, so to speak. I see myself joining in for years to come, baring external matters, or emergencies, of course. I just wanted to share my experience, excitement and to let you know I am having a great time.

I currently have over thirty thousand words and cannot wait to get back to my characters unfolding drama. That being said, I bid you all a great day and happy writing.

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Edna James lives in Kentucky with her very supportive family. She is a Registered Nurse, a Writer of Fiction, and Non-Fiction. Currently she is working on her second novel, as well as, several short stories. You can find out more on her web site: http://www.efjames.com/
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NaNoWriMo Stories: Sanity Check, Guest Post by Amy Mullis

Wednesday, November 24, 2010
Sanity Check

by Amy Mullis

I love November. The month decorated with shades of orange and gold and...wait. That was October.

November is the month we plan a meal that involves more food than a jetliner requires fuel. We must clean the house, yes, even the corner behind the litter box, because it’s a safe bet the baby will find the petrified Snickers bar and spit it out with a flourish, wrapper and all, when you serve the pie.

We need to see if we have 24 cloth napkins to match the tablecloth and they have to be clean because if Aunt Maude gets the one with the wine stain, she’ll convince everyone that we’re a family of alcoholics who eats candy off the bathroom floor.

Oh, and while we’re up to our elbows trying to shove stuffing into a cavity the size of a quarter, lets take on a writing challenge and agree to throw down 50,000 words like they were marbles on the playground.

If I were into role playing games, I’d be rolling for a sanity check right now.

Head down, I’ve been typing away since the stroke of dawn on November 1. By the second week I finally began to pull ahead on my word count.

Before much longer, perhaps I could work in a bathroom break.

Why do life lessons happen at the most inconvenient times?

A call came from my son, who had one of those days at work. On the ten year college plan, he’s hovering between adolescence and adulthood and presently sitting under a cloud so dark that he was willing to talk about it.

I looked at my blank computer screen.

I looked at my phone.

The computer buzzed a faint protest as I turned it off.

We spent the day as a family, eating fresh doughnuts at a bakery shop where the air smelled of sugar and childhood memories and wonder. We took a trip to the local discount theatre, and laughed at the antics of a curmudgeon turned hero. We ate at a local fast food restaurant, sitting on high stools, swinging our legs.

Then came magic words. “Being with you guys makes up for everything that happened today.”

The next day I got up early. In two hours, I made up the word count from the day before. My mind was relaxed; its empty cup filled with new thoughts, new schemes, new ideas. I finished the day with enough words to pull back ahead. And it was fun!

Take a day off? Crazy. I never would have done it on my own. But it increased my productivity and gave me a fresh outlook.

Take a break. It doesn’t have to be for a day; it can be a walk down the street, looking at the miraculous change the seasons have made in the world around you.

And don’t worry about the napkins. If Aunt Maude gets the one with the wine stain, it will make a great story.

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Amy Mullis is a humorist and essayist who hitched her computer to the NaNoWriMo locomotive for the first time this year, and figures she has to hang on until the end of the ride because she can’t figure out how to stop the train. Her work has appeared on the humorous blog An Army of Ermas and in various Chicken Soup and Cup of Comfort anthologies as well as The Christian Science Monitor and Sasee magazine. She was awarded Honorable Mention in the 2010 Erma Bombeck Writing Competition. Join her for some "Don't let this happen to me!" moments on her blog, Mind over Mullis .
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The Puppy Ate My NANO, Guest Post by Tirzah Goodwin

Tuesday, November 23, 2010
The Puppy Ate My NANO

by Tirzah Goodwin

This is my third year doing NANO. I've tried to learn from my earlier mistakes. I don't stress if I don't get the full 1,667 words each week day as long as I'm caught up by Sunday night. But I still make some rookie movies, such as getting a puppy the month before NANO.

I’ve taught myself to hold the puppy with my feet while I type furiously with my fingers. Fred tries constantly to kill my laptop by jumping on it. He really knows how to kill a writing spree but I love him anyway.

My other two dogs have survived previous NANO writing marathons. They curl up on the couch with busy bones and sleep. As long as I walk them once a day, the guys are willing to be ignored for thirty days. And some deli turkey couldn’t hurt. Deli turkey can buy you lots of forgiveness.

The puppy doesn't understand. Of course, he also doesn't understand not to pee in the house and why dryer lint can't be eaten as an after dinner mint either. I'm not sure he's the brightest bulb. I tell him all the time that he doesn’t have to be cute and smart so pick one. Fred better hope he turns out cute though because smart is off the table.

Earlier today I was nanoing my fingers to the bone, trying to catch up from a week’s worth of distractions. I hit a thousand words. I was almost where I should be. Then my computer blinked up a warning "low power." I plugged it in and kept typing.

A few minutes later, my screen went black. I thought, "Whatthebleep!" The knob was in the hole. I was plugged in. I followed the cord back to the wall. And what do I find? A brown and black face staring up at me with the cord dangling from his mouth. I guess he was tired of waiting for his walk.

I only lost 1,100 words. I really love Fred. He still lives. I woke up the other two dogs and we went on a slow walk around the block. My other male dog yawned the entire time, he kept glancing back at me with a dirty look. It's November, he's allowed to nap all he wants on the couch and I was breaking the rules. I shrugged and told him to blame Fred.

I had to crack open the new pack of deli turkey to get myself out of the doghouse.

I get the computer going again, sit down and try to type. No words come to mind. My mind is a blank slate.

Crap. I guess if this continues, I suppose I can say the puppy ate my NANO. Do you think anyone will believe me?

Me either.

Fred's licking my toes and I really need to find something to write. Maybe I should let Fred write something, he seems to be the only one with any bright ideas tonight.

But I don't think he's interested, he just yawned.

I guess I'm on my own but what NANOer isn't'?

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Tirzah Goodwin is an aspiring fiction writer and published poet. She’s happily single and lives in Kentucky. She loves learning new things including cover design, horseback riding, knitting and, of course, NANO writing. Her current blog is:  http://acleverwhatever.blogspot.com/



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