Caitlin Forbes is a Maine-based author who writes stories that explore the messiness of relationships—from sisterhood to romance to the tricky relationship we have with ourselves. When not writing, you can find her chasing after her toddler (or her dog) and exploring small-town New England life.
What Comes Next by Caitlin Forbes: Reader Review Event & Giveaway
Caitlin Forbes is a Maine-based author who writes stories that explore the messiness of relationships—from sisterhood to romance to the tricky relationship we have with ourselves. When not writing, you can find her chasing after her toddler (or her dog) and exploring small-town New England life.
Interview with Leslie Cox - WOW! Q4 Creative Nonfiction Essay Runner Up
Leslie Cox, a runner up in the Q4 Creative Nonfiction Essay contest for Ode to My Hands, is stopping by to tell us about the unexpected help she got with her writing from her grandmother, writing communities and some great memoirs to check out.
Prior to retiring from a career in health care administration in 2019, Leslie published articles and a guidebook for health care professionals, and then realized having become a published author, she could make the choice to write what she’s passionate about—her personal stories. Through her work, Leslie hopes to inspire readers by using her voice to speak her truth and maybe even make them smile. Her memoir is in editing phase, and she has a few more projects up her sleeve!
Leslie’s most recent work is published in Writer’s Digest Online, WOW! Women on Writing, two print anthologies, online literary journals and blogs. She enjoys continuous learning of writing craft by attending an abundance of workshops and events, online and in-person. Leslie serves on the volunteer leadership team of Phoenix Oasis Press, helping with community events and publishing of an annual anthology. When she is not reading or writing, you will find her enjoying nature, pets, and three grandchildren who are the loves of her life.
Find Leslie’s writing here:
Website: www.lesliesvoice.com
Instagram: @lesliecoxwrites
Facebook: Leslie Cox
WOW: Congratulations on being a runner up in the Q4 2025 Creative Nonfiction Essay Contest for The Work of My Hands. It seems you were also a runner-up several years ago. How do you feel your writing has evolved in the five years since your first win?
Leslie: One word describes my writing life over the past five years—Growth! I finally have the confidence to call myself a “writer” which I thought had to be earned. Learning the writing craft will always be part of my life, whether through workshops and webinars, writers’ groups, or just reading wonderful writers whose books inspire me.
My last Muffin interview mentioned that I would be focusing on completing a memoir in 2020. Well, that goal was a little ambitious, but the manuscript is finally complete and in the capable hands of an editor/WOW instructor.
WOW: How exciting! It's always encouraging to see a fellow writer's big project come together. I'd like to think our contest (or at least promising us a memoir in your interview) gave you a nudge. Do you have any advice for any of our readers out there who are on the fence about entering the WOW - or any - writing contests?
Leslie: Absolutely enter writing contests, whether you have been writing for a long time, or just beginning your journey. I admit I was fearful in the beginning—I suppose it was mostly fear of rejection or just getting my words out there for others to read. I have since entered many contests and submitted my personal essays to several literary journals. The rejections do get easier with time, and then when an acceptance shows up, seemingly out of nowhere, the feeling of success is worth all the work and worry.
WOW: The magic of good news in our inboxes! Can you tell us a little about what inspired you to pen an ode to your hands?
Leslie: Well, I’m glad you asked! I initially wrote this essay for a course taught by WOW’s own Kimberly Lee, “The Body in Writing.” In that class, I wrote not only an ode to my hands, but also to my gut, my heart, and my whole body. I spruced up “The Work of My Hands” and got the courage to share it aloud with a writers’ club. The members seemed to relate with it, so on a whim, I submitted it to the WOW contest!
WOW: And to think it began with a WOW class. When you aren't in classes what does your writing day look like?
Leslie: I don’t have specific writing habits, but my head is constantly full of words and lines I eventually put on paper. I can write pretty much anywhere, at any time of day or night.
When I started my current project (historical fiction based on documents, letters and photos left by my grandmother when she died), I secretly asked her to help me write her story, and that night I wrote the entire first chapter in a dream. Detailed scenes were played out repeatedly—in Spanish! Her native language, except I was the one speaking. A few years ago, a similar experience happened when I dreamed about a specific memory from thirty years prior, woke up crying, and wrote it into my memoir.
WOW: What a powerful connection with your writing self. I dream scenes or snippets of writing which is why I always have a notepad by my bed. You're very active with a local writing community Phoenix Oasis Press. Can you tell us a little about what you do?
Leslie: POP is a small group of writers who love bringing writing experiences to the Arizona community through workshops, a book club, and supporting local authors at events or via social media.
We are in the process of publishing our third anthology around the theme of “curiosity.” My role was to receive online submissions via Submittable to ensure all guidelines were met before sending poems or essays on to the review team. Once the final pieces were selected, my role was copyediting.
POP leaders volunteer our time and energy simply because connecting with other writers is what we love to do!
WOW: Do you feel it is important for writers to find a community like Phoenix Oasis Press or WOW? Do you feel your volunteer work helps you with your own writing?
Leslie: In 2023, I wrote a blog for POP entitled, “How Giving Away Can Give You Back”—Generosity is key when it comes to building a writing circle. Writing can feel lonely at times, so having a community of friends who share their passion for writing is a gift that has not only improved my writing, but my life!
WOW: After retiring from a career that included writing for the healthcare industry, you've written everything from children's books to memoirs to essays to interviews. Can you tell us about a project?
Leslie: Well, this is a loaded question! I have several projects up my sleeve—at least two children’s picture books, a general nonfiction book, and the historical fiction novel I mentioned above. That is the project I’m most excited about because my grandmother had such an interesting life, as she would tell me—filled with intrigue, hardship, and love of family. I’m hoping she’ll help me (again from beyond), as I begin chapter two!
WOW: We're at the tail end of Nonfiction November Month. Do you have any nonfiction titles to recommend?
Leslie: Goodness, there are SO many great ones! I have a whole library of General Nonfiction books, but Memoir is my favorite genre, and my TBR list is stacked tall! This year, those I had a hard time putting down included: Heavy (Kiese Laymon), Solito (Javier Zamora), The Distance Between Us (Reyna Grande), This Story Will Change: After the Happily Ever After (Elizabeth Crane), and You Could Make This Place Beautiful (Maggie Smith). That last one I’ve read a couple of times.
WOW: Your enthusiasm for writing just can't be contained. Thank you so much for sharing it with us.
Leslie: Thank you for this opportunity to interview for The Muffin!
Friday Speak Out!: Why I Started Writing: Finding My Voice After Marriage
Marriage changes a woman’s world in ways she rarely anticipates. For me, it wasn’t about giving up my dreams—it was about learning how quietly they can be reshaped.
After completing my M.Phil. and Ph.D. in Political Science and Gender Studies, I imagined a life of teaching, research, and writing. But after marriage, reality took a different turn. My husband works in another state, while I live with my in-laws in Uttarakhand, where the expectation is simple: a woman may work, but only if she can return home by evening.
Each time I received an interview call from a university in Delhi or Uttar Pradesh, excitement mixed with guilt. My family would gently remind me, “It’s too far… Who will take care of your daughter?” I told myself that love requires compromise. Yet, as the years passed, I realized something had quietly faded—my sense of self.
When Silence Turned Into Words
There were nights when loneliness crept in. My husband was busy, and I never wanted to burden him with my worries. My parents were miles away. I found myself surrounded by affection that didn’t always understand me
So, I started writing.
It began with a few sentences scribbled in a notebook after putting my daughter to bed. Slowly, those lines became paragraphs, and paragraphs became blog posts and essays. Writing became my friend—someone who listened without judgment.
Each word I wrote was like reclaiming a piece of myself that I had lost in the process of fulfilling others’ expectations. Writing became more than expression; it became survival.
The Weight Women Carry
Many women I meet share similar stories—educated, capable, yet quietly confined by invisible boundaries. It’s rarely open opposition; it’s the soft resistance wrapped in care: “We just want what’s best for you.”
Statistics often show how women’s participation in the workforce declines after marriage, especially in traditional societies. But behind every number is a woman who once dreamed of a life beyond domestic roles.
For me, it wasn’t just about giving up a job—it was about giving up a version of myself I had worked so hard to build.
Writing as Healing
Writing offered me the courage to turn pain into purpose. Every blog post or research article became a step toward emotional healing. It connected me with other women who shared their struggles, and I realized I wasn’t alone.
Through writing, I found a way to live meaningfully within the life I already had. It reminded me that while our circumstances may limit us, our words can set us free.
A Note to Every Woman Writer
If you’re reading this and feel unheard or stuck between duty and desire—write.
You don’t need perfect conditions to start. You just need honesty and the willingness to express your truth. Writing doesn’t just record your experiences—it reshapes them.
For me, writing became a bridge between who I was and who I wanted to be And perhaps that’s what every woman’s story deserves—to be written, shared, and remembered.
Dr. Farzeen Bano is an Assistant Professor of Political Science and a researcher passionate about gender studies, digital literacy, and women’s empowerment. She holds an M.Phil and Ph.D. from Jamia Millia Islamia, where her doctoral research focused on “Women Prisoners and Their Rehabilitation: A Case Study of Jails of Uttar Pradesh.” Beyond academia, she writes on social issues, education, and women’s rights, aiming to bridge research with real-life change through digital storytelling and public engagement.
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Dr. Seuss is Back?
But then I was sorting through my own archives (also known as my laptop) searching for a particular essay. During the hunt I uncovered some of my writings that were much darker than my usual style. They were more therapy than writing for publication. I considered deleting them, but couldn't quite bring myself to do it. But that doesn't mean I'll be seeking out a market for them.
Which brings us back to Dr. Seuss and his upcoming Sing the 50 United States. I think we can all agree that Dr. Seuss was a powerhouse in children's literature. So why wasn't Sing the 50 United States published during his lifetime? It isn't as if his manuscripts were languishing in some editorial assistant's slush pile. So what happened? We can spin tales of him "forgetting" about it or becoming preoccupied with other writing. But what if he just didn't like it? What if he never meant for it to be published but couldn't quite bring himself to destroy it?
Sing the 50 United States isn't the first book to be published posthumously, in fact it isn't even the first Dr. Seuss book to be published posthumously (What Pet Should I Get? was published in 2015 after being written somewhere between 1958 and 1962).
Some books were well on their way to publication when the author suddenly died and the publishing house just carried on without them (Steig Larsson and The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo trilogy). But others make you wonder what the author's intentions were, most recently Harper Lee's Go Set a Watchman. I don't know about you but to me it felt like a first draft that was abandoned for the major overhaul that became To Kill a Mockingbird. But many other authors had their writing posthumously published: Agatha Christie, Ernest Hemingway, Louisa May Alcott, Ian Fleming, Jane Austen. Was that their intention or was that particular book hidden in a drawer for a reason? In some cases their work wasn't even finished and they never had the opportunity to share the meaning behind their writing. Instead experts spin their theories and best-guesses, perhaps totally misunderstanding the author's purpose.
Does the reading community's hunger for more of their writing overtake the writer's wishes? Would you want your writing published without your permission?
And for all of our readers from the United States (and belated to those from Canada), have a Happy Thanksgiving full of friends, family, football and your favorite pie.
Jodi M. Webb writes from her home in the Pennsylvania mountains about everything from DIY projects to tea to butterflies. She'll be enjoying homemade apple pie for breakfast today. She's also a blog tour manager for WOW-Women on Writing. In November, she's blogging about her nonfiction reads at Words by Webb.
Witches and Wild Yarrow: Interview with Mary Alice Dixon, author of Snakeberry Mamas, Words from the Wild
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Murder Under Redwood Moon by Sherri Dodd: Blog Tour & Giveaway
Interview with Kelsey Aldinger, Third Place Winner in the WOW! Q4 2025 CNF Essay Contest
Friday Speak Out!: She’s Baaaack!
Oh my goodness, I’m so glad to be here at the Muffin! Though honestly, I’m so glad to be anywhere these days…
The last time we met, it was December of 2023. My first book in The Ladies of SPI cozy mystery series, SECRETS LAID TO REST, had launched (here!) in October and I was deep in promotion and all the exciting experiences that come along with a book debut. So I had written a fond farewell to the Muffin, looking forward to the crazy chaos of my publishing future.
But in February of 2024, I hit a blip, a health crisis that blindsided me. So much so, that when I read my doctor’s note—“patient seems more concerned about her book than her diagnosis”—I laughed out loud. Because it was true; I was hyper-focused on that book! But I had to laugh as well at the irony, that after twenty years of thinking about writing a mystery, and building my writing skills, and learning everything I could about publishing so that I had finally written and published a book, all I could say was, “Are you kidding me?”
Well, not kidding. All things book-related were put aside while I switched focus. And then came autumn; in fact, just around this time of year, when I knew that all was well. Yay!
But I was not the same Cathy C. Hall in November of 2024. I’d been down a similar road when the Beneficent Mr. Hall up and died in 2016. There are some events in life that are truly…well, life-changing. And back then, in the middle of writing for the educational children’s market, I finished the book contract and knew I’d move on to what made my heart happy.
It took a few years and a pandemic but joyful writing returned when I found my voice in a cozy mystery for adults. So here I was in November, 2024, on the other side of yet another life-changing event. Would I still feel that a cozy mystery series was in my future? Did writing even matter anymore?
And I discovered something wonderful! Those Ladies of SPI called to me! I missed Sutter, the Southern town where my sixty-something sleuths lived. I missed Malone, the cadaver-sniffing dog and all the other colorful characters that lived in my fictional world. I could not wait to write about pie and Tarot cards and complicated relationships. Truth is, I had to finish the next story!
I’m not sure I ever appreciated the healing power of writing, or even understood how it worked. But I am sure that I would have written that second book, even if no one ever read it!
(But I hope you will read it because I published and released SECRETS OF COLE HOUSE this month! Find out more at catherine-c-hall.com, and thanks to The Muffin for letting me drop in today and share my joy!)
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