Apply now through January 18, 2026. You will learn about several different acting techniques and how they can be applied to various aspects of your writing.
Interview With Odyssey Writing Workshops Graduate & Instructor: Barbara A. Barnett
Apply now through January 18, 2026. You will learn about several different acting techniques and how they can be applied to various aspects of your writing.
Friday Speak Out!: ARE YOU TRYING TOO HARD TO WRITE
By Noelle Sterne
Is your writing forced? Stale? Flat? You may be trying too hard. I know when I am. The first sign is murmuring admiration of my turns of phrase. The second is imagining readers’ gasps of delight at my ingenuity. The third, and most important, is a yellow-red warning flare—Oh, oh, ego’s rising.
If I don’t pay attention to that flare, I know it heralds disaster. The work cannot help reflect this overconscious effort. Somehow, all the technique, wordplay, and resplendent diction overpower whatever message I want to convey.
The idea isn’t new; it’s been called the Law of Reversed Effort. Aldous Huxley said, “The harder we try with the conscious will to do something, the less we shall succeed.”
More specifically to us writers, in The Writer’s Book of Wisdom: 101 Rules for Mastering Your Craft, Stephen Taylor Goldsberry cautions, “Try not to overdo it. . . . Beware of contrived lyrical embellishment and fluffy metaphors” (p. 87). From my own work, I would add, beware of eloquent, balanced rhetoric. And repetition for effect. And overly ripe similes. And too-intricate expositions and too-pithy observations.
After reading Eat Pray Love, I read a transcript of an interview with Elizabeth Gilbert. When she worked on her next book, trying to imitate that first bestseller in the similar breezy, flippant, and pseudo-deep style, she produced 500 pages. Eventually realizing what she was doing, very courageously she junked the whole new manuscript.
Once Gilbert no longer tried to duplicate that success, she wrote a completely different book. Although Committed was not as successful as Eat Pray Love, its style and Gilbert’s reflections are honest and wholly appropriate to its subject, her misgivings about marriage.
Trying means we’re writing too self-consciously, usually to impress. In contrast, doing, as you probably know from your ecstatic writing stints, means total immersion. However many drafts we need, however many dives in the uncertain creative mud we can dare, our success rests not in trying but doing.
Like Gilbert in her post E-P-L foray, when we try to write impressively, even with all our might, we end up failing or at least falling short. Our writing lesson? Don’t try. Do—or don’t. Huxley has a lovely admonition: “Lightly, my child, lightly.”
Or maybe we’re moved not to write at all for a while. Or write a load of nonsense first, even though we know it’s crap. Or use the slash/option method incessantly (one of my favorites/best practices/most helpful methods/greatest techniques for skirting stuckness and continuing to slog). Maybe it means going back countless times to excise, refine, replace, restructure, or even, like Gilbert, pitch it all out.
So I tell myself, Stop trying to be clever and knowing. Stop trying to beat out your writing colleagues. Stop trying to show off your wit. Stop trying to replicate your recent success. All these tryings cut off your expressive truth and especially choke your honesty as a writer. Let’s all stop trying and watch our writing flow.
Writer, editor, writing coach, and spiritual counselor, Noelle Sterne (PhD) publishes stories, essays, and poems in writing, literary, educational, women’s, and spiritual venues. A professional editor, Noelle mentors writers in the throes of their novels and memoirs as well as exasperated graduate students to completion of their dissertations. Her two published books: Challenges in Writing Your Dissertation (Rowman & Littlefield, 2015) and Trust Your Life: Forgive Yourself and Go After Your Dreams (Unity Books, 2011). Pursuing her own dream, she is completing her third novel. www.trustyourlifenow.com
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What's in My TBR Pile?
Around this time last year I wrote a post discussing what our collective bookshelves say about us. I came to realize like many bookworms, I love to read and also collect things to read . . . in the future. Unfortunately at this point I feel like I’ll never catch up on my TBR pile. My piles of books come from a variety of places, some are gifted to me, some I discover at my favorite thrift stores and used bookstores, others I dig up at library book sales. Now that I also work part-time at an independent bookstore, I have access to an overwhelming number of advanced reader copies, both in physical form and through audiobook. My TBR pile is growing by the day. I thought it would be fun to inventory what I currently have on my shelves (and anywhere else I can stash them). This does not include cookbooks or books that I either did not finish or have not yet completed.
Fiction:
Cut and Run by Mary Burton
Days You Were Mine Clare Leslie Hall
Ellen Poe: The Forgotten Lore by Diana Peterfreund
Haven’t Killed in Years by Amy K. Green
Home Before Dark by Riley Sager
In a Dark, Dark Wood by Ruth Ware
Middle of the Night by Riley Sager
My Best Friend’s Exorcism by Grady Hendrix
One by One by Ruth Ware
Once and Again by Rebecca Serle
Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen
The Bewitching by Silvia Moreno-Garcia
The Celebrants by Steven Rowley
The Cleaner by Mary Watson
The Guncle Abroad by Steven Rowley
The Hours by Michael Cunningham
The List of Suspicious Things by Jennie Godfrey
The Lost Apothecary by Sarah Penner
The Measure by Nikki Erlick
The Names by Florence Knapp
The Only One Left by Riley Sager
Nonfiction
Killers of the Flower Moon by David Grann
Let’s Pretend This Never Happened by Jenny Lawson
Notes on a Silencing by Lacy Crawford
Scandals, Tragedies, and Triumphs: More of America’s Greatest Newspaper Columns Edited by John Avlon, Jesse Angelo and Errol Louis
From looking at this list it’s obvious I tend to gravitate toward fiction rather than nonfiction, but I’d like to change that. I do tend to listen to a lot more nonfiction in audiobook form though, especially memoirs.
Where do the majority of books in your TBR pile come from? Are there any you’re excited to read soon?
Renee Roberson is an award-winning writer and host/creator of the podcast, Missing in the Carolinas. She also works part-time in an independent bookstore in North Carolina that was featured in the film, The Other Zoey.
Interview with Wendy Hawkes, WOW! Q4 2025 Creative Nonfiction Contest Runner Up
Wendy: Thank you so much! This was actually my third time entering WOW's Quarterly CNF competition. The first time I was long-listed (a deliciously inspiring carrot dangling that suggested maybe this writing thing would work out); the second time...crickets. That essay was an attempt at humor, but deciphering why it didn't land provided a wonderful teaching moment. Lesson learned: don't sacrifice the tenants of good personal essay writing for "the bit." The structure was all over the place with no universal takeaway. I hoped to redeem myself, so I tried again. I'm delighted this effort connected in some way with the judges, and I hope it will with readers at large as well.
WOW: “Escapism: Leaning into My Inner Octopus” is an entertaining and encouraging essay (especially for those of us who might want to lean a little more in this direction). What inspired you to write this particular piece?
Wendy: Ha, wow I'm so happy to hear that a gelatenous escape artist inspired the WOW team, too! I can't remember how I came across the story of Inky, but his need to find a more suitable home resonated like an islander blowing a conch shell straight into my ear. Since I left on a year (or so) of slow travel several months ago, I've taken to referring to myself as an American escapee--a little in the sense that I'm running away from a country I no longer recognize until the listing ship rights itself, but mostly because I feel as if I've cast off the constraints of "normal" western-culture life for the freedom of experiencing the rest of the world. Once I began writing about the octopus' journey in relation to my own, other connections surfaced. I hadn't originally planned to include my years as a dancer-slash-magician's assistant, but it made so much sense when it showed up on the page. As did the side bar into the self-preservation getaways we women often have to employ. That tiny nugget allowed me to sneak in a universality that I presumed Women on Writing's (primarily) female readers might recognize in themselves, or a friend or family member. That at various times any and all of us can be escape artists.
WOW: We’d love to know more about your writing routines. Could you tell us when and where you usually write? Do you have favorite tools or habits that get you going?
Wendy: Oh boy, this one's a doozy. The joy and down side of full-time travel is the utter lack of routine. As slow travelers, my husband and I try to stay in one place for three to four weeks at a time, which allows me to work writing into the day, usually in the morning before we start sightseeing or supermarket trips or whatever's on for that day. But travel days can be insanely busy, so I take advantage of Sitting Still times. I've crafted my weekly Substack essays and query submissions on planes, trains, and automobiles--no joke. A four-hour bus ride through Portugal? Great time to write (except, perhaps, for the lack of space as I inadvertantly elbow my husband beside me while my fingers fly across my keyboard...sorry, Babe). I'd love to crow how disciplined I am, waking at dawn to grab a mug of coffee, a quick meditation to get the creative juices flowing, then chaining myself to my laptop until at least 1500 words appear onscreen. I ain't that gal. I write when my brain has deciphered and organized its whirling thoughts enough for my fingers to work, then I keep at it until the mud clears and I start making actual sense of the piece. Maybe someday I'll stick to a routine. One can only hope.
WOW: What writing projects are you working on right now? What’s next for you?
Wendy: I am deep in the query trenches at the moment, submitting my debut memoir about that time I moved to the Bahamas right as their worst hurricane in history wiped out the island--and I was stranded there with my husband. Think EAT, PRAY, LOVE meets THE PERFECT STORM, but with survivors. That event actually launched our current nomadic life, with a brief (four year) interlude of living on the water, cruising the islands full-time except during hurricane season, of course, when we'd tie up to a dock--stuck, waiting for our next escape. While waiting for busy agents to reply, I contribute weekly essays to my Substack, "Moving Forward", where I share adventures and lessons learned from the road and muse about midlife reinvention and other escapist-centric topics. I'm always noodling about travel articles I can pitch, or essays I think might work for other contests or literary outlets, or chapter ideas for my next memoir, a study of a three-generation mother/daughter/dance teacher legacy I'm co-writing with my daughter. (She's generation three.)
WOW: Best of luck with your memoir submissions! Thanks so much for chatting with us today, Wendy. Before you go, can you share a favorite writing tip or piece of advice?
Wendy: I only started my writing journey a few years ago, so it seems insane for me to be offering advice to anyone since I still consider myself an emerging writer. Though with each byline published and contest recognition, I'm slowly accepting the notion that I'm inching closer to Capital-E Emerging Writer, like I've earned an official title. I can, however, echo an oft-recommended piece of advice that has worked wonders for me: Read your work out loud at some point during the editing process. Prior to querying, I read my memoir manuscript to my visually-impaired mother--a central character in the book--and I was shocked at the typos, missing words, and clunky sentences in my so-called "final" version despite rounds and rounds of proofreading edits. Amazing how those little devils can sneak by. As for a favorite writing tip, I think as a memoirist or writer working in the personal essay space, the most important thing to keep in mind is the "So what?" question. Why does this essay need to be released into the wild? What's the takeaway for the reader? I think keeping that universality and writing not only for us to discover greater truths about ourselves, but for also the reader (dare I say humanity as a whole?) is the best way to avoid falling into the dreaded navel-gazing trap. I'd add keeping a little sense of humor, not taking ourselves too seriously, can help keep us grounded and maybe even boost self-confidence. You know, that high-value commodity writers always wrestle with. Thank you for this amazing opportunity. I'm humbled to be selected among such wonderful women writers and grateful WOW! provides a dedicated space for our work.
Friday Speak Out!: When an Historian Writes Historical Fiction
What’s the difference between writing history and writing historical fiction? As an historian turned novelist, I bring the same love of research and discovery to each project. I respect facts and timelines in my fiction, but when evidence ends, imagination steps in and I invent freely.
My novel The Double Standard Sporting House is set in an elite brothel in 1868 New York. At that time there were more than 500 brothels in the city, from dirt cheap and risky to wildly expensive and elegant, but we have very little evidence about the women working in any of them. The few contemporary studies reek of moral hypocrisy and the sexual double standard.
The women of premium brothels had intimate access to the most powerful men in the city, members of the corrupt Tammany Hall political machine at the height of its power. I chose this setting because I wanted to set the power of intimacy, compassion, and community against that based in competition, violence, and exploitation. My heroine is a healer who runs the brothel to fund her clinic for women, and to practice medicine as she sees fit.
My first question when researching 19th century prostitutes was: who were they? Many thousands scraping by as housemaids or needleworkers did it to supplement meager wages. 30% of women at that time did occasional sex work just to get by! In contrast, 1-2% of women do sex work today when we have access to many more kinds of employment.
Educated or middle-class girls most often found themselves in prostitution because they were seduced and abandoned, or raped. Cast out or ashamed, unable to return to their families or homes, it was often their only option, and it could be very lucrative. Apart from going on stage or trading stocks, owning a brothel was the only way for a single woman to gain property or earn a fortune.
I chose 1868 because of one half-line in historian Marilyn Wood Hill’s book Their Sisters’ Keepers: Prostitution in New York City, 1830-1870, describing “a brief but unique era when prostitution was managed predominantly by females.” That era ended when the Tammany Hall political machine gained control of the sex trade through trafficking and exploitation, which seeded my plot and antagonists.
I searched for evidence of these female entrepreneurs, but deep sources always came from the wrong place or time. Abbott Kahler’s delightful Sin in the Second City about a Chicago brothel in the early 20th century inspired some fun details. I thought I’d found a fascinating memoir by a madam called Nell Kimball who ran a house in 19th century St. Louis, but it turned out to be a fabrication—a complete fraud—by prolific author Stephen Longstreet.
Having read about 100 books on 19th century prostitution, women’s health, and Tammany Hall, I told as layered and authentic a story as I was able. You might say such thorough research only provides the backdrop to story and character, which do indeed come first in a novel. But a story and characters often resonate because they’re rooted in good history.
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Nancy Bernhard is a journalism historian and yoga teacher, fascinated by how survivors of sexual and political violence heal through storytelling and movement. Having earned a BA in religion at Dartmouth, a PhD in American History at the University of Pennsylvania, and taught at Harvard, Bernhard turned her indignation over the sexual double standard into an absorbing tale rooted in the 19th century history of Tammany Hall. She was born in Brooklyn, and lives with her family in Somerville, Massachusetts.
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An Important Lesson I Learned from a Difficult Client Situation
Last week, I had one of the worst client experiences I've had all year. I'd rather not get into the weeds of it here, but I can tell you the word "lawyer" was brought up, and I ended up in tears. The situation has, for the most part, subsided and, as much as possible for now, has been resolved. However, I learned an interesting lesson that I wanted to share.
- Plan in advance. Planning can help, but you do have to stay committed to it. I did take some time away this Thanksgiving, for example, but I made sure to wrap things up early and communicate with any clients about time off.
- Stop worrying. There are a few businesses that require an emergency response. My freelance work isn't one of them. These two days, I learned it isn't a terrible thing if I don't respond to an email right away. If you struggle with not responding, consider disconnecting your e-mail from your phone while you're away.
- Tell people in your life. I told my mom that I was disconnecting from work for those two days. It helped because I stayed accountable to someone other than me. Tell people around you that you plan to disconnect. Make sure they know they can call you out if you start working again.
- Plan your future work schedule. If you are taking any number of days off, make a list of what needs to be done on the day you return. This helped me let go. It stopped me from constantly running a to-do list through my head and feeling guilty.
What Comes Next by Caitlin Forbes: Blog Tour & Giveaway
Interview with Sherry Morris, Runner Up in the WOW! Q4 2025 Creative Nonfiction Essay Contest with "The Munlochy Clootie Well"
Congratulations to Sherry Morris from Scottish Highlands, UK
for her touching nonfiction essay titled:
Sherry: Thanks Crystal. And thanks for the opportunity to talk about my writing life. I feel very lucky to live in a place of such stunning natural beauty as the Scottish Highlands and I’ve no doubt the setting nourishes my creativity. You’re right, I don’t write in a fairy garden, but funnily enough there is one next door to where I live…in the grounds of a lovely boutique hotel here in our village…
WOW: It sounds like you are great for one another; another layer of magic and joy! I love it! What’s next for you? What are your writing goals for the rest of 2025 and beyond?
Today's post was penned by Crystal J. Casavant-Otto
Friday Speak Out!: How Writing Helped Me Find My Voice Again
For a long time, I wrote only when I felt “ready.” When the pain wasn’t so raw, when I had the perfect words, when I finally felt like myself again. But healing doesn’t wait for readiness, and neither does writing.
I started journaling again during a season when my confidence was gone. My faith felt shaky, my purpose unclear, and my mind constantly cluttered. But when I began putting my thoughts on paper — messy, unfiltered, and honest — something shifted. Writing became the space where I didn’t have to be perfect to make sense. I just had to be present.
The more I wrote, the more I realized how much of my voice I’d quieted trying to fit into expectations — as a woman, as a professional, as a creative. Every sentence I wrote was a small act of rebellion against that silence.
If there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s that writing isn’t about waiting until you have it all together. It’s about showing up to the page anyway — shaky hands, tangled thoughts, and all — and trusting that your voice is worth hearing in every form it takes.
So if you’re a writer who feels stuck, unsure, or muted by life’s noise, here’s your reminder: your story still matters, even when it’s messy. Write your way through it. You don’t need permission to take up space on the page — just the courage to begin again.
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Would you like to participate in Friday "Speak Out!"? Email your short posts (under 500 words) about women and writing to: marcia[at]wow-womenonwriting[dot]com for consideration. We look forward to hearing from you!
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Is Your Book Book Club Worthy?
Recently I have been getting emails every week stating that this, that or the other book club wants to include my book on their list. The emails are all from bots or are some kind of scam,* but they do make me think. How do you know if your book is a good book club selection?
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