Showing posts with label prioritizing. Show all posts
Showing posts with label prioritizing. Show all posts

Planned Neglect (Or How I Met My Nano Goal Without Even Trying)

Tuesday, November 30, 2021

Not to toot my own horn, but here it is, the next to last day of November, and I’m put-a-fork-in-my-manuscript-done with Nano. 

Um…I guess that is tooting my own horn. But I’m going to share how I accomplished my specific goal for this annual writing challenge and if you give my method a try, you’ll be tooting your own horn, too.

THE GOAL

Unlike the Nano standard 50,000 words by the end of the month, I tweak my goal to fit my specific need. This year, I had nearly 28,000 polished words of a cozy mystery. I wanted to add 10,000 words in November and develop a doable habit of producing the same per month (approximately 500 words a day). Keep in mind I’m editing and writing so that by the end of November, I wanted approximately 38,000 pretty sparkly words. 

THE PROCESS

Some of you may be familiar with the concept of “planned neglect.” I came across a reference to it in September, and though there are several versions of the story, the one I read had to do with a concert violinist. 

The violinist was asked the secret to her success and she responded, “Planned neglect.” She went on to explain that instead of doing all the daily tasks that demand attention and then practicing her violin, she flipped her routine. She neglected all those pesky chores and practiced first, thereby insuring that she always did what was most important every single day

Now, if you’ve ever read anything I’ve written about my writing process, you know that I make lists and set goals. It’s a process I apply not only to writing but also to the general running of…well, my life. And though I’m fairly good at prioritizing my daily goals, I realized something, thinking about my To Do List. Namely, that working on something that I really enjoy but that has no guarantee return (say, a paycheck) tends to be last on my List of Things I Actually Do. 

Oh, dear. 

Of course, it’s important to pay bills and meet work deadlines, but I was giving my best hours of the day to stuff I could do anytime and fitting in my writing when I was often tired and brain-dry. And so I reversed that paradigm; I found my optimum writing time and everything else had to fit around that time. Or get neglected. 

I’m not going to lie. Forcing myself to leave piles of junk mail or dirty clothes till the weekend made my hands sweat. Neglecting my inbox till 10:00 at night made my heart race. I’m a wee bit compulsively neat and organized so the whole planned neglect thing made me anxious. But only in the beginning. Very soon, something wondrous happened. 

THE RESULT

My creative juices began to fill those spaces where the mundane had taken up residence! I woke up thinking about my plot, my characters, bits of dialogue. Throughout the day, my manuscript rolled around in my head and so without even trying, I’d sit down to write and the words spilled onto the page like water from a fire hydrant! 

By November 17th, I hit my goal. Before Thanksgiving, I hit 41,000+ words; I’m only on hiatus now because of research I need before moving forward. But more important than the word goal was the new habit created. 

WHAT ABOUT YOU?

Try this method. Take a look at what and when you’re spending your best hours. Plan what you can neglect in order to give your writing the best of you. Follow the plan and your priorities every day. You’ll be surprised how quickly you can form a new habit. 

And honestly, I’ve found that I can live comfortably and downright happily with my planned neglect. (But just for the record, I’ve worn clean underwear every day this month.)

Read More »

The October Checklist (Or EEEKS! It’s Getting Scary Now!)

Wednesday, October 02, 2019
Maybe it’s because it’s ninety-three degrees today. Or that I’m still lounging about in flip-flops and cut-off shorts while dead leaves fall into my frozen adult beverage. The point is, I did NOT see October coming until I turned the page on the calendar—and I screamed like the teenage girl in the horror flick who knows (or technically, doesn’t know) that she’s doomed.

Because October means just three more months before 2019 ends, and with it, all the goals and resolutions and whatever else I planned to accomplish by the end of the year, of which I don’t have a bat’s chance in you-know-where of finishing.

Ugh. I don’t know how this keeps happening to me, but I do know how to take care of business (after I’ve finished all the panicky shouting and running into walls, that is). So if you’ve just faced the ugly realization that you’re way behind, take a look at my October Checklist and we’ll catch up together:

1. Give Yourself a Hand. Find that list you made way back in January and celebrate each and every goal you’ve accomplished. I always include a couple of wants that I automatically do on a regular basis—like reading 50 books—just so I can feel good about accomplishing a goal. But I’m also usually surprised at how much I’ve done throughout the year. So check off what you’ve accomplished and enjoy a little bit of bliss before you start berating yourself. Wheee!

2. Prioritize. The art of prioritizing is very useful no matter what you want to accomplish, and I use this skill daily with my Things To Do List. You see, I invariably list more than I can do in any given day, but I adjust as the day progresses to make sure that I accomplish what I absolutely must get done that day.

So find your 2019 list of goals or resolutions or whatever you call ‘em and put them in order of importance, preferably listing them into a couple of subheadings: Must Do, Should Do, Only If I Have Time To Do. This will force you to intentionally look at your goals and figure out how important each one is.

3. Time to toss. Yep, it’s time to get real up in here. You have three months, and if we’re being honest, you really have about sixty days to get ‘er done. So now you can see why all that hard thinking and prioritizing was important. If you used subheadings, now is when we toss the “Only If I Have Time To Do” goals. If you put your goals in order of importance, toss at least the bottom third of your list. Come on, you were never going to get those goals done, so toss ‘em right now! See how freeing that is? Next, tackle your “Should Do” goals.

My shoulds are usually things like, “redesign my website” or “get new business cards”…basically, they’re on my list because it’d be nice if I did these sorts of things, but there are no dire ramifications if I don’t. Still, sometimes it can be a bit trickier, so if you’re having trouble deciding, think about the consequences of not accomplishing a goal. I guarantee that you’ll easily figure out that there are “Should Do” goals that can be tossed and others that have to be added to “Must Do.” And now all that is left is what you absolutely need to get done in the next three months. Wheee!

So October doesn’t have to scare you anymore. Because unlike the crazed teenage girl, you’re not doomed; you have a new (way shorter) list of goals or resolutions or whatever you call ‘em and you can bask in the knowledge that you’ll accomplish ‘em before the 2019 deadline.

Well, maybe everything but fixing Thanksgiving dinner. EEEEKS!

~Cathy C. Hall


Read More »

The October Panic

Wednesday, October 03, 2018
So here it is October, a whiff of pumpkin spice in the air, swirls of red, gold, and brown leaves in the neighbor’s yard, and maybe somewhere, folks are even pulling on their favorite boots. And as you, dear writer, sip on your toasty beverage and gaze out the window at the leaf blower sending all those swirling dead leaves into your backyard, all you can think is, “WAIT, WHAT? NANO IS JUST ONE MONTH AWAY! 2018 IS ENDING IN A FEW MONTHS! AND WHAT HAVE I ACCOMPLISHED? WHAT? WHAT! WHAT?!”

Okay, first of all, take a deep breath. I’m pretty sure that you’ve accomplished way more than you’ve imagined, even if your achievements were not exactly on your list of writing goals. Um…you do still have your goals, right? (I’ll give you a few minutes to find that list…)

Got it? Good. Now set it aside. The thing is, we often focus too much on our failures rather than examining the whole picture, and end up feeling just awful. So instead, let’s go off list and focus on all the aspects of the year so far. Did you get in your steps every day, lose a few pounds? Or maybe you’ve suffered the loss of a loved one and watched as carefully laid plans drifted away. Did you have major renovations or make a move? Have you navigated new and challenging waters of employment? Maybe you finally got an agent, made a major sale! Whatever the ups and downs of your year, from the physical to the emotional to the spiritual, it’s impacted your writing goals for better or worse.

I'm not where I thought I'd be in October, but still, I feel pretty darn good. Despite all the comings and goings of a wedding, I’ve finished a major novel revision. Maybe five years ago, I would’ve accomplished much more, but I’m weighing my achievements against this year only. That's what matters for me, and it’s what matters for you as well. So now, let’s look forward. We have three months left and that's plenty of time to make a plan.

First, prioritize. Do you want to do National Novel Writing Month? Then now is the time to do your prep. And give some thought about what you want to accomplish with Nano; you don’t have to write a novel, or get a certain word count. Make Nano your own, but it’s imperative to start the planning stages now. Bottom line is this: whatever is still on your writing list—Nano, a revision, a freelance project— that you desperately want to finish by the end of the year, focus on that goal.

Because the second step is all about that ticking clock: be realistic about what you can accomplish. Once we hit the holidays, with costumes to make and kids home from school, and family visiting, and baking and cooking and…well, honestly, I’m already wore out. You only have so much time here in the home stretch so make it count with whatever writing project(s) you choose to tackle.

And the third step, because I’m all about the Rule of Three, is celebrate what you’ve accomplished so far. Pick up that warm beverage and put your feet up for a few minutes. Congrats to you on whatever you’ve achieved and good luck on what’s to come.

And one more thing. Feel free to dump all those leaves back in your neighbor’s yard. (That’s what I’m fixin’ to do.)

~Cathy C. Hall


Read More »

Learning From People Who Have Changed Their Lives

Saturday, November 14, 2015
Last weekend, I was lucky enough to mentor some beginning writers at a writing conference at the University of Missouri, Columbia. (Yes, this is the same place that has been in the news all week because of the student who was on a hunger strike, the football team refusing to play, and the president resigning.) At the wonderful conference, put on by the Columbia Writer's Guild and Mizzou Publishing, I was also lucky to hear Colin Wright speak. This 30-year-old entrepreneur from Columbia is living what he preaches--he was unhappy with his fast-paced, California business life right out of college (Missouri State), and so he changed his life. And he told us how he did it--you know he sold his stuff, moved, started a blog, wrote books.

But what was amazing to me, and what is amazing to me with many of these stories, is how one day a person decided:

I'm unhappy. This is not the life I want.

And then he or she has a plan and puts it into action.

Colin wasn't saying that everything he tried worked. But what he was saying loud and clear to us several times was that he is supporting himself with his books, which he self-published and then started his own publishing company with friends. He works hard; he markets; he comes up with new and innovative ideas for book events. All of us could do this or something like this that fits our lives and dreams.

Again the big point I took away from his talk was--he wanted change and he got it.

After he told us his story, he shared with us several tips he followed to start living his dream. I honestly can't remember every tip he had, and that's not important either. But what I do remember is that he was talking mostly about priorities. He doesn't believe the excuse--I don't have time to write. I don't have time to change.

And he's correct. We all have time--it's about our priorities. And don't beat yourself up if your priorities are your family instead of being a bestselling author. That's okay. But be honest with yourself and stop beating yourself up. Ask yourself: what is my priority? Is there something (like Netflix) that is taking up my time and is not a priority for me?

If you want change and it's a priority, there will be time.

We live in a world that is uncertain. I think this morning that fact is more in our face than ever with the recent world events. Find someone you respect, who has recently changed his/her life (if you are looking for change, that is)--I'm choosing Colin Wright, but you may find someone else--and ask this person how he/she did it. Just have a conversation. You don't have to do exactly what he or she did. You may not be able to. But remember the biggest piece of advice I took away from Colin's talk: if something is a priority for you, you will find the time and a way to make this happen in your life. 

What do you want your life to look like? How does writing play a part?

Margo L. Dill is the author of three books for kids from preK to 12th grade. You can find out more about her and her books at http://www.margodill.com.  She also teaches classes for WOW!, which you can check out in our classroom here
Read More »

Priorities: What to Write Next

Thursday, June 12, 2014
Recently, a writing buddy messaged me with the list of possible things she could write next. “What should I choose?”

I laughed as I responded with my own list. It looked something like this:

  • Finish the fiction picture book that is almost done.
  • Finish the nonfiction picture book that is almost done.
  • Write a new article for CBI/the editor is waiting.
  • Rewrite the play for Schoolwide because that editor is waiting too.
  • Work on a highly marketable nonfiction book idea – must be submitted by 9/1.
  • Check out two new-to-me agents.
  • Write an alphabet book while this particular market is looking.

The reality is that each of us has to set our own priorities based on our goals and our situation. Here are five questions to ask yourself as you decide which project to work on next.

  1. How much writing time do I have? A friend of mine is a stay-at-home dad. His children are both preschool aged and he has only a limited amount of writing time. This means that short projects go to the top of his list.
  2. Am I writing for fun or profit? I make my living as a writer. This means that projects with a readymade market move to the top of the list. Projects that pay well take priority over those that pay poorly.
  3. Is this a temporary opportunity? A group of us attended a writing retreat in April. The editor who led the retreat will accept work from us only from 6/1 through 9/1. If I’m going to submit to her, I need to get the project done.
  4. Am I hiding behind my list? Writing is a scary business. You put yourself on the page and then send it out to strangers. It is easy to hide behind safe writing and avoid working on something that, while dear to our hearts, is risky.
  5. Do I need to temporarily reprioritize? Circumstances change and our plans often need to change along with them. In the summer, I’m a swim team mom of one pre-driving boy. This means that my writing time is limited for 2 ½ months out of the year. From June through July, my priorities change.

I’ve created a prioritized list of projects based on my own answers to these questions. Answer them yourself to prioritize your own projects, but remember. This list isn’t permanent and you may need to re-examine things in a few weeks.

--SueBE

Sue Bradford Edwards teaches the WOW course, Writing Nonfiction for Children and Young Adults.  The next session begins on 7/7/2014.
Read More »

What To Write Next…

Saturday, October 19, 2013
What to write next isn’t something I generally need to consider. I simply look at my calendar and see which deadline is fast approaching. Sometimes the deadlines are for work my editors have requested.  Other times they are theme deadlines or from calls for manuscripts. 
But there are times, like right now, when I have very few deadlines.  Then I have to think – which project should get my attention right now?  Here are some of the things that I consider.
  1. What is ready to go?  If a manuscript comes back home (translation: gets rejected) when I am in the middle of a big project, I often let it sit.  At times like these, I gather these projects up and update the cover or query letters.  Soon I have two or three pieces out the door.
  2. How much energy do I have?  If I am coming off a huge deadline, I might pick something smaller to work on this time around such as a single activity for a new market or a calendar activity for Thriving Family.  The pay is minimal but so is the word count.  This is something I can have out tomorrow and if I make the sale it creates an opening at a new publisher.
  3. Is it seasonal or otherwise timely?  Some submissions have to go out at a certain time of year.  If that is now, this item is going to be at the top of my list.  After all, if I put it off for too long, I will have missed my chance.  I need to get it out while the timing is still right.
  4. Is this for a market that is often closed?  Some agents and publishers aren’t always open to submissions.  If I have something for one or the other and the door is open, I need to act on it right away.  The same holds for a new agent or a new publisher.  I want to get my work in their hands before they are overwhelmed.
  5. Is this idea demanding attention?  There are those ideas that are bouncing up and down, hollering “Me, me!  Pick me!” It takes enthusiasm and energy to carry any writing project from idea to submission-ready and if something is calling out to me, now is a great time to work on it.

What criteria do you use when the time comes to pick out a new project?

--SueBE
Sue Bradford Edwards blogs about her writing at One Writer's Journey
Read More »

Why Do Writers Trash Their Efforts?

Monday, March 11, 2013
I'm not talking about tossing the latest page into the trash can in your office or on your desktop. I'm talking about trashing our own efforts to make it as a writer.

Stop it! Stop with the self-defeatist attitude. If you believe you're going to fail, more than likely you'll achieve that goal. If you believe you can and will succeed, then your self-fulfilling prophecy may come to fruition.

Nobody said freelancing was going to be easy. (Well, nobody said it to me.) But, how many times have you caught yourself in one of the following situations? And more importantly, what can you do to stop finding yourself in this type of predicament?


  • Prioritize. If you don't make writing a daily priority, how will you succeed as a writer? I know, some days I feel like I don't write anything. I'm too busy reading press releases or developing story ideas and leads, but let's be honest: not every day can fall into that pattern. If you're going to write, write. Even 15 minutes worth of writing can keep you focused and turn into a worthy project.
  • Plan. If you're serious about freelancing, you have to treat it like a business and know how this business operates. Not only do you need to understand the intricacies of the publishing world, you also need to understand the basics of running a business operation. Consider tax preparation, contemplate important purchases, and confer with fellow writers. 
  • Procrastinate. Whoa! No, I'm not encouraging you to put off until tomorrow. It's a bad habit (and unfortunately, I mastered in it while working on a master's). You have to look at the root of the problem. Not submitting queries? Why? Not able to schedule writing time? Why? Stop waiting for success to knock on the door. YOU have to make it happen.
  • Promise. If you accept an assignment or promise to submit three pages to your critique group or set dedicated office hours, then keep the promise! It's so important to follow through, whether with an editor, an agent, a trusted writing pal, and yes, yourself.
Why do we writers trash our efforts? We're human, yes, but until we learn that the journey requires hard work and dedication, we will continue to sabotage our efforts.

Do you trash your writing efforts? How do you overcome this problem?

by LuAnn Schindler 


Read More »
Powered by Blogger.
Back to Top