Trigger Warnings

Thursday, June 04, 2026


I've been thinking a lot about trigger warnings lately. I'm not sure exactly when trigger warnings became such a part of our lives but recently these helpful "heads up" about uncomfortable topics seem to be everywhere. They aren't only in books and other entertainment like TV programs, movies and plays but it's becoming a part of our everyday conversation. Recently an acquaintance issued a trigger warning before commencing to tell me about her minor car accident.


OK.


So what's the purpose of trigger warnings attached to books? I suppose the idea is to give people a warning if they have experienced a trauma or have a mental health issue so they can avoid things that make them anxious. The problems is, the things that can cause anxiety are infinite. Sure, we can all agree on some broad terms of uncomfortable topics: sexual assault, violence, suicide, animal cruelty, eating disorders, self harm. But what about snakes, hurricanes, birds, semis, dogs, needles, choking...the list of phobias goes on and on.


When we label a book with a vague trigger warning, we may being unknowingly be placing it "off limits" to someone who could handle, and even enjoy, it. Because we all draw the line at a different place. Perhaps one reader is not bothered by murders but a fist fight, a relatively minor episode of violence, is what truly bothers them because they experienced it. Maybe one reader can endure three pages of violence to be immersed in the other 350 pages of the story. How can we know how much is too much for the thousands of readers of the words we write? 


Anxiety is not always logical. We try to scoop millions of experiences under one umbrella like sexual assault. It seems obvious what that covers. But what if something innocuous is woven into the memories of a sexual assault. A dark alley.  A margarita.  A college dorm room. A rose. How can authors know what things that seem innocent to us could trigger a sexual assault victim?


Perhaps you're thinking that we have to at least try, after all we want our readers to have a good experience. But multiple studies have found that trigger warnings aren't that helpful. First, trauma survivors were found to become distressed just by reading trigger warnings. For someone dealing with PTSD, even a warning "This book contains X" can bring up all the negative memories they have attached to X. 


Another study showed that some trauma survivors feel that trigger warnings make them feel like victims, as if the world thinks they are too vulnerable to even read about certain things. Studies on PTSD also show that avoidance (which can be helped by the use of trigger warnings) can actually increase the effect something has on a person. If a person returns from combat and is jumpy at loud noises because it reminds them of gunfire, a therapist doesn't recommend that they find the quietest place on the planet. Actually, they're encouraged to seek out noises so they can help re-train their brain that not every loud noise is life threatening and to practice calming themself. Perhaps reading about something is a safe way to expose yourself to things that trigger anxiety in you and allow you to tell yourself that it can't harm you. And feel the power of closing the book if you don't want to read anymore.


It's true. Reading about some topics can be uncomfortable. My definition of uncomfortable is probably very different than your definition. But can't we gain something from being uncomfortable? Will we find new ways of looking at things, empathy, strength from facing what bothers us in the safety of a book?


How do you feel about trigger warnings? Should we embrace them or let our readers rely on an old-fashioned book synopsis to filter reading choices?



Jodi M. Webb writes from her home in the Pennsylvania mountains. She's also a blog tour manager for WOW-Women on Writing. Follow her writing and reading life at Words by Webb

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Interview with Alexis Valle, Runner Up in the WOW! Fall 2025 Flash Fiction Contest

Tuesday, June 02, 2026

 



Alexis Valle is a Criminal Justice student at Metropolitan State University of Denver, where they balance academic rigor with a deep passion for writing. Their work explores identity, queerness, and the complexities of living in a fractured world, often blending personal narrative with broader social commentary. Currently, Alex is developing a poetry series that reflects on resilience, belonging, and what it means to exist at the crossroads of Latin and queer identity. 


----------Interview by Renee Roberson

WOW: Welcome, Alexis, and congratulations! “Masa, Blood, and Other Tender Things" is a great example of using voice to make your story stand out. Marisol’s voice is haunting, matter-of-fact, and when she’s around Isabel, vulnerable. What steps did you take to ensure that Marisol’s tone would be sure to leave an impression on the reader? 

Alexis: I approached Marisol’s voice as something controlled first, emotional second. I wanted her to sound calm, almost domestic, someone you’d trust immediately, because that makes the horror land harder. She speaks in simple, matter-of-fact observations, but there’s always a second layer underneath, something withheld. 

To build that, I leaned on contrast. In public, her voice is warm, practical, even a little humorous. But when she speaks about Isabel, that restraint cracks. The sentences soften, stretch, and become more vulnerable. I didn’t want to announce that shift, I wanted the reader to feel it happening. I also focused on rhythm. Marisol’s voice is deliberate. She doesn’t waste words, and she doesn’t rush. That steadiness makes even her most disturbing lines feel natural, which I think is what allows the story to linger. 

WOW: Shifting the tone of her voice so subtly paid off by the end! What was the inspiration behind this story? 

Alexis: The story came from thinking about how often women—especially in tight-knit communities—are expected to endure quietly. I wanted to take that expectation and twist it. 

There’s also a strong influence from Latin folklore and oral storytelling traditions, where food, grief, and the body are often intertwined. Cooking becomes a form of memory, but here it’s also a form of control. 

At its core, though, the story is about desire and ownership, what it means to love someone from a distance, and how that love can curdle into something possessive. Marisol doesn’t just want Isabel; she wants to build a world where Isabel remains untouched, preserved. Everything she does feeds into that. 

WOW: You did an excellent job of revealing that in only 750 words--sometimes flash fiction can bee even more impactful than longer works of fiction. Your bio mentions a current work of poetry. Besides flash fiction and poetry, what other forms of the craft do you enjoy and why? 

Alexis: Beyond flash fiction and poetry, I’m really drawn to longer-form fiction, especially novels with dense worldbuilding. I like having the space to build systems, histories, and layered characters that evolve over time. 

That said, I think poetry has shaped everything I write. Even in prose, I’m thinking about rhythm, imagery, and compression. I want sentences to carry weight, even when they’re simple. 

I also enjoy blending forms, stories that feel almost lyrical in structure or that rely heavily on voice. That’s where I feel most at home creatively. 

WOW: What is your writing process like? As a college student, do you write in small pockets of time, favor early mornings or late nights, or have a special way of exploring an idea when it comes to you? 

Alexis: My process is a mix of bursts and control. Most ideas come to me fully formed in tone before anything else—usually a voice or a single striking image. Once I have that, I write quickly, almost instinctively, to capture that energy before it fades. After that, I slow way down. I revise heavily, especially at the sentence level. I’m cutting, tightening, and sharpening until every line feels intentional. As a college student, I definitely write in small pockets of time, late nights more than early mornings. But I’ve learned not to wait for perfect conditions. If I have ten minutes, I use them. 

WOW: There is no "perfect time to write," that's for sure! How did you first learn about the contests at WOW! Women on Writing? 

Alexis: I came across WOW! Women on Writing while actively searching for spaces that support and highlight strong narrative voices, especially in short form. I was drawn to their focus on storytelling that feels both personal and impactful. Submitting felt like a good fit for the kind of work I’m trying to do, stories that are intimate on the surface but carry something darker underneath.

WOW: Well, we're glad you found us and can't wait to read more of your work. Happy writing!
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The Birth of a Widow by Kathie Giorgio: Blog Tour & Giveaway

Monday, June 01, 2026

The Birth of a Widow by Kathie Georgio

Multi-talented writer Kathie Giorgio is returning to WOW for the launch of a tour for The Birth of a Widow: Collected Poems. Through this book of poetry we explore not only the many facets of grief but also the power a relationship has to shape our life. Join us as we celebrate her launch with an author interview and book giveaway. Let's start the month with poetry!

But first, more about the book:

The Birth of a Widow is utterly shattering portrait of the sudden loss of a husband and a shared life that will speak to anyone who has ever loved or lost a loved one. In these poems of electric honesty, Giorgio explores how she struggles to survive her first year as a widow, using all her wisdom, humor, anger, to cross the vast sea of grief to the other shore, bringing us—wiser, too—along with her.

—Jesse Lee Kercheval, author of I Want To Tell You

Sixty-six days after Kathie Giorgio’s husband was killed when he was struck and run over by a passenger van while walking to his bus stop, Kathie’s grief broke out unbidden into poetry. For the year after his death, she wrote the poems as they arrived. An intimate study of traumatic loss, Giorgio exposes the full depth of grief’s sadness, anger, and confusion.

Publisher: Kelsay Books (Feb. 24, 2026)
AISN: B0GQ45W871
ISBN-13: 979-8901467190
Print Length: 88 pages

Purchase your copy on AmazonBarnes and Noble, and Bookshop.org. You'll also want to add it to your GoodReads reading list.

About the Author, Kathie Giorgio

Kathie Giorgio is the author of seventeen traditionally published books: eight novels, two story collections, an essay collection, and five poetry collections. Her new novel, Unique In All The World, will be released in February 2027. She’s been nominated for the Pushcart Prize in fiction and poetry and awarded the Outstanding Achievement Award from the Wisconsin Library Association and the Eric Hoffer prize for fiction, among others. 

Giorgio is also the founder and director of AllWriters’ Workplace &Workshop LLC, an international creative writing studio offering online and on-site courses and workshops for all genres and abilities, as well as coaching and editing services.

Find the author at:

Instagram: @kathiegio1
Twitter/X: @kathiegiorgio

-- Interview by Jodi M. Webb

WOW: You published many different types of books: novels, poetry collections, short stories, personal essays. As writers, do you think we should “stretch” our skills by trying many genres?

Kathie: I believe that writers should stretch with genres, but not for building a skill set or for sales or for a brand. They should stretch because they really want to write something in that genre. If you’re a poet, but you think you have a great idea for a short story and it’s all you can think about, then write it. Ditto with any genre to any genre. We should always write what we feel strongly about, whether or not we’ve ever written anything like that before.

WOW: Do you have a favorite genre to write or does it depend on the project/idea?

Kathie: If I was told I could only write in one genre for the rest of my life, I would choose the short story. I love writing in all the possibilities – fiction, nonfiction, poetry. But the short story was my first love and remains my #1 passion. What I write does depend, of course, on the idea. I often don’t know what something is going to be until it is. I once set out to write a novel, jotting down ideas throughout the day on a list. Later, when I looked at the list, I discovered it was a flash fiction piece, already written. You just never know.

WOW: That's an amazing story! How did The Birth of a Widow come into being? Because the poems follow your first year of being a widow, I wonder if you wrote them as part of journaling and the later decided to collect them into their own book?

Kathie: I never intended to write The Birth Of A Widow. 66 days after my husband Michael’s death, I went (ran, really) to the Oregon coast, which is my place to get away, drop all roles, and just be alone. While I was there, I suddenly began to have lines from what appeared to be poetry appearing in my head. So I wrote them, and they were all about Michael and what happened. Because they kept coming after the initial 5, I decided to let it continue (as if I had a choice!). I never once sat down deliberately to write one of these poems; I just wrote them as the words came to me. I did put a deadline on it – I didn’t want to spend the rest of my life writing about losing my husband. So I said I would give in to these poems until the first anniversary of his death. Of course, the writing itself made the final decision – on that anniversary, I found myself unable to write. But the morning after that first anniversary, I woke up with the poem in my head I decided to show the collection to my poetry publisher. She said they should be published, and I agreed.

WOW: Do you find writing helpful in dealing with the challenges of life?

Kathie: Yes, I definitely find writing helpful in getting me through life’s challenges. For years, when I’ve found myself in a situation that I just can’t figure my way through, I sit down to write a short story about it. I create a character who is totally unlike me, but in the same situation. That distances me. Then I move the character through the story. If I can get the character out the other side, I can get myself out too. (Incidentally, I have a novel being released next year, which has a main character who has just lost her husband. Yes, I needed help with this challenge too.)

WOW: Tell us a little about your process. Do you write daily?

Kathie: I don’t write exactly daily. I don’t write on weekends. Typically, I don’t write on Wednesdays either, as I teach all day that day. But I write the other days, and if I’m on a break, I write all day, every day. I’m typically an afternoon writer. My mornings are spent with clients, then I write, then in the late afternoon and into the evening, I teach classes and meet with more clients. If I have a day or a week where nothing comes, I don’t fret anymore. I’ve been writing long enough that I know it’s temporary, and my mind is only taking a rest.

WOW: After being a writing teacher for decades, you must have some great advice. What would you tell all our writers out there?

Kathie: The first thing I would advise is to not put the selling before the writing. Don’t even think of selling or publication. Just write. Once you start publishing, there is tremendous pressure to keep publishing, and you tend to get caught up in that, rather than the passion for putting down just the right words. Don’t write because you think it will sell; write because you have something to say.
    
The second thing I would advise is don’t reach so quickly for the delete key. Even if something doesn’t seem to be going well, give it a chance. We are our own worst critics, and sometimes, when we’re struggling, it actually means something great is on the way. Write it out.

WOW: Do you think teaching helps you as a writer?

Kathie: Teaching definitely helps me as a writer. It puts me right smack in the middle of a community that not only loves what I do, they want to do it too. I’m with people who understand the draw to do such a strange thing. Plus, I can’t hardly expect my students to write if I’m not writing.

WOW: I never thought about the motivation you receive from being a writing teacher. What’s up next for you (and your writing)?

Kathie: I have a novel, Unique In All The World, being released on February 18, 2027. I also decided it was time to fully immerse myself in my first passion, so I’m writing a short story collection.

WOW: Ooh, I am definitely looking forward to that. You are so passionate about short stories I can't wait to read your collection.

The Birth of a Widow Blog Tour

-Blog Tour Calendar

June 1st @ The Muffin
Join us as we celebrate the launch of The Birth of a Widow: Collected Poems by Kathie Giorgio. Read an interview with the author and enter to win!

June 3rd @ Word Magic
The spotlight is on The Birth of a Widow: Collected Poems by Kathie Giorgio. Drop by & learn more.
https://fionaingramauthor.blogspot.com

June 4th @ A Storybook World
Kathie Giorgio, author of The Birth of a Widow: Collected Poems, tackles the challenge of honesty in writing on today's post.
https://www.astorybookworld.com/

June 6th @ Boots, Shoes and Fashion
Don't miss today's interview of Kathie Giorgio, a creative writing instructor and author of 17 books.
https://bootsshoesandfashion.com

June 7th @ Shoe's Seeds and Stories
Kathie Giorgio takes you behind the scenes of My Own Writing Retreat: Created, Directed and Thoroughly Enjoyed by Me. Don't miss a review of Kathie's latest book: The Birth of a Widow: Collected Poems.

June 8th @ A Wonderful World of Words
Kathie Giorgio, author of The Birth of a Widow, shares how Poetry is Like a Postcard.

June 11th @ Words by Webb
Today Jodi writes abut the secret parts of grief we don't talk about as well as a review of The Birth of a Widow: Collected Poems.

June 16th @ Cozy Home Delights
Stop by for thoughts on Writing About Grief from Kathie Giorgio as well as a review of her latest poetry collection The Birth of a Widow.

June 18th @ Boys' Mom Reads!
Learn about the latest by writer Kathie Giorgio: The Birth of a Widow: Collected Poems.

June 23rd @ Beverley A. Baird
Beverley shares a review of Kathie Giorgio's latest book: The Birth of a Widow: Collected Poems.

June 23rd @ Tracey Lampley
Author Kathie Giorgio gives us a peek at the balancing act of Writing While Caretaking.

June 25th @ Beverley A. Baird
Kathie Giorgio, author of The Birth of a Widow: Collected Poems, is back with a guest post about the everchanging life of a writer in Everything Writer - Writing in Multiple Genres. 

June 30th @ World of My Imagination
End the month with a little poetry. Nicole shares a review of The Birth of a Widow: Collected Poems by Kathie Giorgio.


***** BOOK GIVEAWAY *****

Enter to win The Birth of a Widow by Kathie Giorgio. Fill out the form below for a chance to win. The giveaway ends June 15th at 11:59 pm CT. We will randomly draw a winner the next day and follow up via email. Good luck!

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