Earlier this week, I read an interesting piece at Make a Living Writing on motivation and goal setting. What? Why am I talking about goal setting in September? Couldn’t I just leave this alone until December 30th? I could, but Marcia egged me on when she wrote about rebooting your writing life.
Goal Setting: The Difference Between Push Goals and Pull Goals
Earlier this week, I read an interesting piece at Make a Living Writing on motivation and goal setting. What? Why am I talking about goal setting in September? Couldn’t I just leave this alone until December 30th? I could, but Marcia egged me on when she wrote about rebooting your writing life.
Setting Goals in 2022
I’m an idea person. It might take me a moment to get started, but ask me for ideas for a blog post, a picture book, or a series and soon I’ll have a column of ideas on the page. They won’t all be great, but they will be many.
I have a similar problem when it comes time to set goals or resolutions for the coming year. I’m going to finish a novel, a graphic novel, and a memoir. I’ll submit my work to two agents a week and . . . on and on, I go.
- I am taking Melanie Faith’s class on writing graphic novels. You can find information on that WOW class here. It starts on the 14th.
- I’m taking part in Storystorm, generating 30 picture book ideas in 31 days. So far I have 6 ideas in my notebook and probably another four or five that I’ve e-mailed to myself.
- I’m working on an educational series pitch for Kane Press. This is in the early stages. I’m currently reading their books and looking at what other publishers have done.
- I’m writing Act 3 of my middle grade novel, tracking my word count on NaNoWriMo. You can set up a project any time which means that you can work for a week or three months. You also set your word count goal and the program helps keep track of your progress.
Can You or Can't You?
Hello December!
As a musician, farmer, and mother of six, the month of December is filled with concerts, appointments, schedule changes, and lots of busy-ness. It is also a time of great reflection and anticipation of the new year. This month in particular seems to fly by (which reminds me, I need to order a planner for 2022 for my desk at work). Today I'm reflecting on the challenges 2021 brought for our children. One child in particular comes to mind as she started her freshman year of highschool in September. During a recent parent teacher conference, her teacher mentioned "she needs to be kinder and gentler to herself and stop saying she is stupid". I of course agreed, yet how often in my own life have I spoken negatively to myself? I think we all have a tendency to use negative self talk and be incredibly hard on ourselves.
I mentioned to my daughter that her swimming coach had mentioned something similar in context of her swimming mentality. She would say: "today probably isn't going to be my best day for breast stroke" instead of cheering herself on with positive affirmations and thoughts of setting a new personal record. I've requested my daughter pick up a copy of the audible book I'm currently enjoying titled: The High Five Habit . We had a great conversation about being our own cheerleaders but how we are blessed with a large family and the opportunity to not only cheer ourselves on, but to cheer on our siblings as well! Connecting with a teenage daughter (at least in my experience) is somewhat hit or miss. We ended the conversation on a high note and went on with our days.
This morning on my way between jobs our youngest was watching the movie Boss Baby in the vehicle while I was driving (and before you gasp ... I had once thought 'I'll never be the mom who lets kids watch a movie in the car - I want to talk to the little angels and not have them engrossed in television'... 6 children later and my parenting approach is much different...gasp and judge away). If you aren't familiar with the movie, it's fine because I haven't actually seen it, but I can hear the audio while driving and something caught my ear as I heard an old Henry Ford quote:
"Whether you think you can or you think you can't, you're right!"
Once I got the youngest dropped off by my mom and settled in at the office, I sent my freshman daughter a text:
This begs the question - and yes, now I'm talking to you dear reader:
CAN YOU OR CAN'T YOU?
As we approach the new year, where is your thinking going to be? Can you finish that novel? Can you get a publishing deal? Can you make time for self care? Can you commit to being your biggest cheerleader? Can you commit to writing in your journal 5 out of 7 days a week?
Make a list of goals you want to accomplish for 2022 and make sure there are items on there about positive thinking! I'm going to go order that planner before I forget, and your job is to leave a comment with one of the following:
- share your favorite quote that you refer to often in your day to day
- share a book that you think others will benefit from reading in the new year
- share how positive thinking has influenced your life
- share what your current self would say if given an opportunity to chat with a younger version of YOU
Cheers and Hugs Ya'all!
xoxox
Crystal
Today's blogger is Crystal J. Casavant-Otto who is a hot mess of a momma and dairy farmer enjoying her little corner of the cornfield in frigid Wisconsin this winter!
Planned Neglect (Or How I Met My Nano Goal Without Even Trying)
Not to toot my own horn, but here it is, the next to last day of November, and I’m put-a-fork-in-my-manuscript-done with Nano.
NaNo Planning
I know that NaNoWriMo (NaNo for short) is kicking off in just five days, but better late than never when it comes to planning, right?
What to Do with All the Unfinished Manuscripts?
On our Facebook page, I recently asked how many unfinished manuscripts our community had on their computers. We received many different responses from Naomi Blackburn writing, "I have 4 in various stages from concept to first edits. All will be finished," to Sophie Giroir putting the laughing while crying emoji and writing "easier to count the folders."
What I wanted to talk about today was reasons why unfinished manuscripts exist in a writer's world and what you could do (or not) about them.
Tell yourself that's okay! It's all part of the learning process, and that's true.
The One Thing You Need to Do
It’s that time of the year again. As December flies by, we find ourselves bemoaning what we didn’t get done. And let’s face it. 2020 was a sucker punch for us all. No one had the year they expected, so it isn’t surprising that many of our goals have gone unmet. Many of my writing friends are tweeting and posting the same question – how can I get back into writing in 2021?
Want to know a little secret? No, I’m not going to sell you a ten step program guaranteed to put you on the New York Times list. But I am going to tell you what one thing you need to do as a writer.
You need to write.
You probably see a lot of posts telling you what how-to books you need to read. Or they are recommending writing classes, online conferences or Zoom webinars.
And if any of these things are what you need to do to get the words flowing, fine. Sign up for my classes. I won’t stop you. Attend a webinar on creating scenes. Whatever.
But the one thing you need to do is write.
Not sure what to write? Here are 4 suggestions.
For the compulsive list maker:
Make a list of the movies you’ve seen. Or list the books you’ve read. List your favorite book characters. List 10 settings you would like to utilize. List the poets/paintings/ice cream flavors that inspire you. If you are making a list, you are writing.
For the writer with little or no energy who is aching to start a specific story:
Write the first sentence. Make it compelling. Capture your setting. Fiddle as needed but stop at that one sentence. Unless you really need to write on. Whether you craft a sentence or a paragraph, you are writing.
For the lover of fairy tales:
Play with a favorite story. Retell Goldilocks from the point-of-view of Baby Bear. Or give it a new setting. What if Hansel and Gretel weren’t roaming through the woods but a gated community with a designer coffee bar? Play and have fun. Even if you just take notes, you are writing.
For the Instagram fan:
Scroll through your feed. When you find an image that grabs your attention, use it as a story starter for a micro story. No, not a 300 word micro story. Is that really even “micro”? Seems a bit excessive to me. What can you do in 50 words? 25 words? 10 words?
A writer writes. Sometimes a writer writes something long and lyrical. Sometimes a writer writes something short and sharp. But the one constant?
A writer writes.
--SueBE
Sue Bradford Edwards' is the author of over 27 books for young readers. To find out more about her writing, visit her site and blog, One Writer's Journey.
Sue is also the instructor for Research: Prepping to Write Nonfiction for Children and Young Adults (next session begins January 4, 2021) and Writing Nonfiction for Children and Young Adults (next session begins January 4, 2021).
Advent for Writers
Advent is more than the season before Christmas. It is a time of preparation. This post is my challenge to the Muffin community to shape December into your own Writing Advent. Use December as a time to prepare for writing in 2021.
Step #1. Acknowledge what you wanted to accomplish in 2020.
We all had goals for 2020. Mine included: cataloguing my social media accounts; updating them to create a look/brand; approaching an agent/month; finishing a draft of my cozy; finishing a draft of my graphic novel; and working on my memoir. What were yours?
Step #2. Let go of what you didn’t get done.
I know I’m not the only writer who found this year challenging. Time and time again in the last month, I’ve heard comments from my fellow writers: I failed to get my site up; I didn’t do the writing I wanted to do this year; and I have been completely unable to write. Me? I took stock of my social media, created a brand look which didn’t work, recreated it, recreated it again, put together a new site, and finished a draft of my cozy. The rest? Pfft.
Unfortunately it is easy for us to become attached to what we didn’t do. We think of it again and again when what we need to do is let it go!
Recently a friend taught me a meditation to help with this. Sit quietly. Light a candle if that helps. Breathe in to a count of four. Then breathe out to a count of four. As you breathe out, picture one of these concerns. Let it go and watch it drift away like a falling leaf. Inhale. Let another one go.
Do this every day for a week if that’s what you need to do. When you’ve quit holding fast to your failures, move on to Step #3.
Step #3. Write for fun.
Play with something you don’t intend to sell. This is when I write poetry. Or meditations. Write up a memory. Write something that plays with the sounds of words – picture book writing and poetry are both fun for this. Me? I just drafted a new picture book on Monday.
Do whatever you need to do to have fun with your writing.
Step #4. Consider what you really want to write.
When you’ve let go of the baggage of 2020 and rediscovered the fun, it is time to contemplate what you really want to write. Why did you get into writing? Is it what you’re doing now? If not, do you need to reevaluate what you write?
Many people feel more than a little used and abused by 2020. Use 2020 as a time to pivot. Come away from this year with a notion of what you really want to be writing. After all, if not now, when?
--SueBE
Sue Bradford Edwards' is the author of over 27 books for young readers. To find out more about her writing, visit her site and blog, One Writer's Journey.
Sue is also the instructor for Research: Prepping to Write Nonfiction for Children and Young Adults (next session begins December 7, 2020) and Writing Nonfiction for Children and Young Adults (next session begins December 7, 2020).
3 Reasons Character Motivation Matters
Recently I read a Tweet from an agent. “Make your character’s motivations come through loud and clear in your query.” It seems that too many authors query, stating the character’s goal, but not the motivations behind the goal.
Without motivations being stated loud and clear in the query, the answer was consistently “good luck placing this elsewhere.” Why is motivation such a big deal?
Motivation Makes the Goal Matter
Think about a book that pulled you in and wouldn’t let you go. Character goals vary from attempting to win the Triwizard Cup to trying to win a beauty pageant. Without motivation, you hear a character’s goals and think what is that and who cares? Motivation is what makes a goal meaningful.
In Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire, Harry has been set up and has no choice but to compete. Failure could mean death to himself or his friends. Finding out who set him up alone is a powerful motivation. Add a struggle to survive and his goal is even more compelling.
In Dumplin, Willodeen may be chubby but she’s comfortable with who she is until she starts dating a handsome private school boy. She can’t believe he loves her for who she is and her self-esteem plummets. She decides the best way to bolster her flagging confidence is to enter the pageant.
Life or death. A girl struggling to rediscover her self-esteem. Motivations like these make readers care.
Motivation Provides a Bridge to Believability
Motivation is also what makes your characters believable. Me? I’ve never battled for to be a Triwizard winner and getting me on stage would take a miracle. These just aren’t goals I can identify with. But struggle? Most of us have battled, even if it wasn’t life-or-death, to meet a particular goal so we understand struggle. And at some point in our lives, we’ve lost faith in ourselves and our own abilities. We get wanting to find self-worth. I get that. I get wanting to believe in yourself.
Your reader’s life may be completely different from your character’s life and that can make it hard to build reader interest. Fortunately, the right motivation can provide the bridge your reader needs to enter your character’s world. You do this by utilizing motivations and emotions with which your reader is familiar.
Motivations Make Your Character Complex
Last but not least, motivations are another way to create a complex character. All you have to do is set up conflicting goals. How do you do this? Give your character a goal that is in conflict with a core value. A character who values law and order has to break the rules to achieve their goal. A character who values her independence above all else has to work with others to achieve her goal. A character who values might has to turn to cunning.
Motivations are essential when attempting to create believable characters, accessible stories and complex worlds that readers are eager to explore.
And? Don’t forget to express these motivations clearly in your query letter.
--SueBE
Sue Bradford Edwards' is the author of over 25 books for young readers. To find out more about her writing, visit her blog, One Writer's Journey.
Sue is also the instructor for Research: Prepping to Write Nonfiction for Children and Young Adults (next session begins November 2, 2020) and Writing Nonfiction for Children and Young Adults (next session begins November 2, 2020).
6 Ways to Jumpstart July and Write
As of yesterday, July 1st, we are half way through the year. I don’t know about you but I have been slacking off in the writing department. I know. I know. Give yourself space. Give yourself grace. Treat yourself with loving kindness.
Sue is also the instructor for Research: Prepping to Write Nonfiction for Children and Young Adults (next session begins July 6th, 2020) and Writing Nonfiction for Children and Young Adults (next session begins July 6, 2010).












