Showing posts with label struggling. Show all posts
Showing posts with label struggling. Show all posts

Not Knowing

Wednesday, April 14, 2021

I struggle. I changed that sentence oh so many times - I struggle with ____________ (time management, not always understanding, being patient, parenting, finding time to write, and the list goes on). Ultimately though - I'm sure you can relate with the simple sentence:


I struggle.


After all, each of us struggles with something, right? I left WOW! Blog Tours for a while because I was having a difficult time managing my mom role while managing tours. I thought leaving the tours would be the answer. It wasn't. I'm back. I was missing the lovely bloggers and authors I had worked with. This got me thinking about how we often don't know what the future brings and how things will turn out. This brings to mind my favorite Gilda Radner quote:


Life is about not knowing,

having to change,

taking the moment and making the best of it,

without knowing what's going to happen next.




If you aren't old enough to remember Gilda Radner, there are so many words to describe her - a strong, funny, talented lady with incredible insight about life and love...


Gilda Radner


 
Of course, in the context of this story, I have to say thank you to WOW! for allowing me to stay involved while I changed my mind about blog tours, I kept my foot in the door and boy am I glad I did!

As we know - life is a story and now you know a bit about mine, so let's move onto you and how we can apply Gilda's quote to your writing or reading life.  


Do you sometimes write without knowing what's going to happen next?

(or if you're a reader, do you enjoy a good plot twist? a change you didn't see coming?) 

 

Do you sometimes start in one direction and change your mind?

(or if you're a reader, have you ever started a book and loved it and then decided not to finish?) 

 


Let's delve into this and share our expertise and ideas! There's so much we can learn from one another!



1)  If you're a writer, how do you write without knowing what's next and still keep things flowing? Is there a benefit to knowing how things will end and having it charted out? 

2)  If you're a reader, what's your favorite twistiest book or author and why?

3)  If you're a writer, how do you change your mind about the storyline and keep it seamless for the reader? 

4) If you're a reader, what is it about a book that is an immediate turn-off for you?

and in case you're just here as a non-writer or non-reader and the questions so far haven't applied to you, try one of these:

5) Who is one of your favorite actors of all times and why?

~or~

6) What do you think of when you think about Gilda Radner?

GO!

Thanks in advance for the comments! You're Fabulous!!!


Hugs,
~Crystal


and now...a little more about me...


Shown from left to right:
Delphine riding Honey
Mr. Otto holding Eudora
Crystal riding Marv.
Thank you Forward Farm, LLC 
Crystal is a hot mess of busy-ness who has decided to shorten her bio...

You can find Crystal milking cows, riding horses, and the occasional unicorn (not at the same time), taking the ordinary and giving it a little extra (making it extraordinary), blogging and reviewing books here, and at her own blog - Crystal is dedicated to turning life's lemons into lemonade and she has never (not once) been accused of being normal!





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Do It Anyway! (find your joy)

Monday, February 22, 2016
this man brings me joy every day ~
 thank you Mark Otto! (aka, my biggest cheerleader)
My children probably think I'm writing something about their lack of enthusiasm about chores. I'm often heard saying "do it anyway" in response to someone not wanting to put laundry away or load the dishwasher. Fortunately for you dear readers, today's post has nothing to do with laundry or dishes (but if you ask nicely, I'll share my chocolate chip cookie recipe in the comments if you'd like).

Today, I'm talking about that inner voice that turns us away from doing something beneficial for ourselves. It could be your morning walk on the treadmill, opening your journal on a daily basis, or making time for date night with your spouse. When you feel like you're struggling in life, the best advice is "Do It Anyway!". That's easier said than done. It's in our nature to make excuses or think we aren't meant to be the priority right now. Once we lose focus, we slide down that slippery slope and our goals become harder to see and more difficult to attain. You knew all this already, but here's your not so subtle kick in the pants - Do It Anyway!

I've gotten so busy promoting the work of others that I've completely stalled in my own writing. It wasn't intentional, life just got in the way. I hadn't even thought about it until I was speaking with a friend this morning. My lovely friend is a cancer survivor. A month ago she was on top of the world. She had been a year cancer free and she was working out, feeling great, and planning vacations. Today she is faced with a diagnosis that her cancer metastasized. She admitted to me that she can't stop crying and doesn't want to get out of bed. I am that friend - that friend who showed up at her door and lectured her about not allowing this diagnosis to steal her joy. I reminded her how much she loves watching the squirrels playing in her bird feeders, how much her grandchildren love visiting, and that she needs to rekindle that spark so she can fight this.

As those words left my lips, I realized I needed them as much as she did. I don't have a medical diagnosis stealing my joy. I have the busy-ness of life stealing my joy. Why do I let that happen? (This is NOT the first time) I love writing in my journal, working on my blog, etc... and those things bring me joy. Instead of doing the things that bring me joy, I've been staying busy doing things I felt needed to be done for the good of the family. Now wait just a minute - wouldn't it benefit the family if I was over the moon joyful because I had made time to enjoy my life? Of course it would. I don't need to let the house crumble around me, I just need to carve out a few minutes each day for the things I love so I can find my joy. On those days I don't feel like doing it, I need to be my own cheerleader screaming

DO IT ANYWAY !

So you dear friend - what is stealing your joy? What could you do every day to bring back that joy? What advice would you share with someone struggling to find time for their craft?



Crystal is a church musician, babywearing mama (aka crunchy mama), business owner, active journaler, writer and blogger, Blog Tour Manager with WOW! Women on Writing, Publicist with Dream of Things Publishing, as well as a dairy farmer. She lives in Manitowoc County, Wisconsin with her husband, four young children (Carmen 8, Andre 7, Breccan 2, and Delphine 11 months), two dogs, two rabbits, four little piggies, a handful of cats and kittens, and over 230 Holsteins.

You can find Crystal riding unicorns, blogging and reviewing books, baby carriers, cloth diapers, and all sorts of other stuff at: http://bringonlemons.blogspot.com/ and here: http://muffin.wow-womenonwriting.com/
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