Showing posts with label new year thoughts. Show all posts
Showing posts with label new year thoughts. Show all posts

How to Make a Vision Board for 2019

Monday, December 31, 2018
My critique group is the best thing that's happened to me. I've been in some great ones (I've said this before: I'm a lucky girl!), but this is the first group that we make vision boards each year. When the idea first came up, I thought: What? How can a vision board really help me do anything? I will make this, stuff it somewhere, and find it in twenty years when I'm cleaning out the basement or moving. 

But I'm a good group member and someone provided the magazines, glue, craft supplies, and poster board, so why not? (insert winky emoji here) Now, of course, I look forward to making these vision boards, and so does my daughter (I'm already preparing her for life with an English major. Sorry, kid).

So here's my vision board for 2019:


You'll notice that it's not only about writing because this is how we choose to do it in our group. And let's be honest, writing is not the only part of your life, even if you're a full-time writer, unless you plan to go crazy like Jack in The Shining. On my board, I made a section for relationships, finances, spiritual, travel, parenting, health, and writing/editing with a few inspirational messages thrown in to catch my eye. Plus, even though I'm about to tell you how to do this board in a few easy steps, here's a secret: there's no right or wrong way to make a vision board. Also, there are countless articles about this on the Internet, too; but I'm not sure if any are as brilliant as this one (insert throwing-up emoji here). 

Steps to make a vision board:

1. The. Most. Important. Step. : Get in the right mindset. You don't want to hurry, and it's better done with friends. Dream about the new year! This is not the time to be a realist.

2. Gather your supplies--or if you're lucky, you'll have friends who do this for you! You need poster board, magazines, glue, markers, scissors, and stickers/craft supplies. However, a couple of our critique group members made their vision boards this year on Canva, and they're using their creations as the welcome screen on their laptops. Every time they log on to write (or check Facebook and pretend to write), the vision board is there, haunting reminding them of their goals and visions.

3. Start flipping and cutting.  The way we (the Lit Ladies) do our boards is to cut all photos and words out of magazines first. We have a general idea of what we're looking for (fitness, writing, travel, parenting), but we honestly just discover what calls to us and then cut it out. You may be thinking: this will never work. Trust me. It really does. As soon as you're with friends and dreaming of the new year, words and photos start speaking to you, and not in a Charles Dickens kind of way.

4. Glue. It doesn't get much simpler than that. Okay, really, you have to organize your cut-outs in some way that works for your brain. I do mine by sections, but some people organize their words and photos by how they fit together beautifully on the poster board. You can see up above in my 2019 board that I'm not worried about beauty. (insert whatever emoji here that you think fits that statement)

5. Add words, stickers, ribbons, etc.  If I couldn't find everything that I wanted, I'll add words with markers to the board, and this is not even considered cheating!  I love the excuse to use Sharpies! Who doesn't? The point is--this is your vision board. Make sure it defines your vision for 2019.

6. The. Second. Most. Important. Step.  Share your board with someone or thousands of people. At Lit Ladies, we talk about our boards after we're finished creating them. This year, I put mine on Facebook. Oh, and also on The Muffin. WOW! I am really holding myself accountable now.

7. Final step: Hang it somewhere you will see it. I hang mine where I get the dog food to feed that 4-legged creature who lives in my house, twice a day. One mama in our group hangs hers in the laundry room. One is lucky enough to have an office that is not also a room where minions go and destroy it. Don't, and I mean this, don't hang it where you never go and don't roll it up and never look at it. On American Housewife, Oliver hung his on the back of his closet door until his parents saw it and thought...well, you can catch up on Hulu if you've never seen it. (Funniest show, IMHO)

I'll share my daughter's below for one more example. She's 8! You'll notice a lot of toys and puppies on hers. She is clear on her vision for 2019, but we'll see how she does...Notice: my vision board has no puppies.


Here's to you and 2019. We'd love to see your vision boards on Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter. Tag us! 

Margo L. Dill is a writer, editor, and teacher, living in St. Louis with her daughter and dog. Join her novel writing class by signing up here (starts January 4) or her marketing class (starts January 23, and is ON SALE for $99). You can read more about Margo on her website here. 


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Unplug Little Bug; New Years Thoughts and Ideas

Monday, January 05, 2015
Happy New Year Friends and Family!

If you’re anything like me, you were or are feeling a little sluggish and possibly “burnt out” after a busy/ hectic 2014. We had plenty of signals I was ignoring here at the Otto household:

• We were getting through the holidays instead of enjoying them

• The children were acting out (I was getting calls from school)

• We just weren’t feeling as jolly as in years past

We have so much to be thankful for and we weren’t forgetting that, but our cup of joy wasn’t overflowing in its usual way. I couldn’t quite put my finger on the root cause, but there was definitely something brewing. In hindsight I can see things clearly (isn’t that always how it goes?), and there were plenty of signs trying to get my attention.

• My hubby said “the kids are just so busy they don’t have time to play, run outside, or be kids”

• My iphone battery kept going dead or had a bug or something and the trouble shooting list included the warning: “use an alarm clock instead of keeping your phone on all night; no one needs to be that connected”

• My OB reminded me I need to be getting more sleep and it’s still okay to nap and sleep when our 15 month old is napping/sleeping

• Our neighbor encouraged my husband and I to take a ‘babymoon’ before the next baby arrives

For some reason, I dismissed each of these signs and just kept plugging away. After all, there were appointments to keep, cookies to bake, trees to cut down and decorate, clothes to wash, books to read, floors to clean, presents to buy, and the list goes on and on.

Christmas Day, I crashed and burned…I got up at 4am to make pancakes and bacon. I wanted the day to be special when the children woke up and I wanted my husband to have something hearty to eat before heading out to milk cows. The house was clean, the coffee was fresh brewed, and breakfast was made with just the right amount of love. The sitter arrived and I hopped in our vehicle and headed for church (I’m the church organist, so as much as I know the kiddos need to sleep in and relax, it wasn’t an option for mom). I hadn’t eaten any of the breakfast I made, and I must have drank a fair amount of coffee…despite the recommendation pregnant women should only drink one cup per day. I had only had 3 hours of sleep and I justified the extra caffeine as being necessary to get through the day.

I was wobbly and shaky trying to climb the stairs to the organ in the church balcony. I sat down for a bit and even grabbed an extra bottle of water trying to make myself feel better. I kept mentally reminding myself “they need you” and “you can’t let anyone down”. By the grace of God I made it through the service and even drove home. My husband saw me sitting in my vehicle 10 minutes after I pulled in. He stopped to see how I was and I wasn’t sure…instead of enjoying Christmas, I asked the sitter to stay while I took a 3 hour nap. Two things “hit me” at I was waking up:

• If it’s important for the life of my phone to turn it off at night so it can recharge properly, why isn’t it important for me? Aren’t I more important than a piece of technology?

• How can I expect my children to accept their imperfections if I keep thinking I need to do it all and be everything to everyone?

As an answer to those questions, this girl will be unplugging in 2015. I will not be answering emails at 3 in the morning, I will not stay up until the wee hours of the night reading a book just so I can post my review quickly, and I will be telling people (nicely of course) I do not have time to help with special projects. I’m going to let calls go to voicemail once in a while and I am going to adhere to my original plan of having a 3 day weekend with a 4 day work week. If this makes me “lazy” in the eyes of others, so be it. 2015 is the year I am taking care of what is important to me, so don’t be surprised if you receive my out of office email once in a while.

What’s new for you in 2015? What are your resolutions? What type of reflections do you have for 2014? What are your goals for the New Year? Share them here and then be sure to share them with others so you are more accountable. Hugs from my family to yours and may 2015 be everything you desire (and then some)!
Photo Courtesy of Oh! Photography


Crystal is a church musician, business owner, active journaler, writer and blogger, Blog Tour Manager with WOW! Women on Writing, as well as a dairy farmer. She lives in Reedsville, Wisconsin with her husband, three young children (Carmen 7, Andre 6, Breccan 15 months), two dogs, two rabbits, four little piggies, a handful of cats and kittens, and over 200 Holsteins. The Otto family is expecting an addition with Delphine Elizabeth Otto in February 2015!

You can find Crystal blogging and reviewing books and all sorts of other stuff at: http://bringonlemons.blogspot.com/ and keep up with her WOW! tours and blog posts at: http://muffin.wow-womenonwriting.com/
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